Is someone not being close to their family a red flag for you? If they had cut off contact with them, don't mention them in convos, acknowledge them?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would think that person is the problem, in some way

No, I'm not close with a lot of my family

No, that's not my business, even if I was dating the person, if they me why they aren't close, then so be, but if not, who cares

If they had no one but themselves, than yes, but if they had other friends and people that loved them around them, than no

Other

[Spongebobssocks]

No I would understand. There are abusive parents out their who enjoy seeing their children in pain and you can't change that. Its rare but it exist so I'm not the one to judge.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thank you AI 😌

[Boomchakalaca]

Nope its fine. Just as long as their situation justifies their actions.

[BlackJeep]

Family is everything to me. I wouldn't even consider being with someone who doesn't share this value

[NoFollowReqestPlz]

What if she does share the family value but she grew up in an unhealthy and toxic family, and this played a part in her cutting contact with her family?

[BlackJeep]

If she has the same values then great. I would be cautious around her at first until I see those values though. I'm old enough to know that good people can come from shitty families

[thatshydork]

Depends on why they don’t have a good relationship with their family but generally yes.