How do you respond/react when a crush leaves you on seen?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anything longer than a day and I’m out. It’s clear there’s no time for him to talk to me, and if he was busy then it that’s literal moments to send a quick “hey I’m gonna be a bit busy today so if I take a while to respond then that’s why”. The man can’t even be bothered to do that! You’re better off without him.

[Asker]

Thank you for this❤️

[Opinion Owner]

No problem! Sorry it didn’t work out but there are many men out there you will find a better match!❤️

[Asker]

Thank you 🥺❤️

[Jazzy54]

Honestly, I don’t know why. However, if it’s been over a month, it sounds like he has ghosted you. I wouldn’t send any more messages, if I were you.

[Asker]

Thank you, I guess I needed a reality check 😢 i won't send any messages to him

[RyanK9b]

For multiple days?

[RyanK9b]

Absolut no response?

[Asker]

For about a month

[Jazzy54]

I’m sorry, but it sounds like he has ghosted you.

[RyanK9b]

If it takes maybe some hours its no problem. But even after days its freaking over.

If someone keeps you that long waiting is he not interested or you're definitely not a priority

[Asker]

Well the thing is, I feel like it's my fault because when I last texted him it was night time and I sent him a text after I got home saying "I'm back, but you're probably asleep" and he read my message but only liked my message. Should I have responded? Why didn't he say anything back instead of just liking my message? Was he letting me know he's awake or he didn't want to text me?

[RyanK9b]

U don't text at night back after liking. He doesn't responded in the morning. You are not on his radar. Move on

[HollyK21]

@asker it doesn’t really matter what you last sent, what time you sent it, etc etc. If he wanted to talk to you, he’d have reached out by now. Even if it’s in the morning to tell you he did go to sleep. This isn’t a man who wants to mutually invest, which I think will always be a risk when you make a move on someone you like. Maybe you feel ready to date but he might not be at that place in his life,

[Asker]

Okay thank you so much guys😭❤️ I'll try to move on

[RyanK9b]

Good girl, much luck for you 🖖

[LavLavLuv]

Idc tbh

[Asker]

It's always good to have that mentality

[In_Trance]

stop texting and call