If a girl has a huge crush on you and you decide to start a relationship with her is it more likely to succeed?

[Ben487]

[inhua]

it's more likely to succeed than the reverse

relationships stay stronger when the woman loves the man more than the man loves the woman

[BigBlueEyes343]

Except when the man takes the woman for granted and dumps her the moment someone younger, more exciting and hotter comes along.

[inhua]

@BigBlueEyes343 that was never a relationship to begin with. men don't just suddenly fall out of love with a woman he's been in love with for a long time. outside of the man putting a ring on a woman's finger, women hold all the other cards in a relationship. it doesn't take much to satisfy a man but it takes a lot to satisfy a woman.

[BigBlueEyes343]

I was too nice in a relationship. I gave him sex whenever he wanted it, never asked for anything, all but melted with love for him and affection and cooked his meals, supported him through everything and gradually his love faded away, as life with me was boring. He never had to work for anything. Men get off on working for your love and body. The less you care, the more they want you. It’s crazy to women, but I guess it’s human nature.

[BigBlueEyes343]

I then fell in love with another guy called Ben. He was interested. I started dripping with love like an overeager puppy, cooking for him, messaging him daily, telling him how much I loved him. We were friends. I was young; and in love and made it too easy. So he blocked me twice on Facebook. The funny thing is, both guys chased me once I stopped trying so hard. I wasn’t interested and I’ve learnt to always put myself first in relationships since and it’s worked better.

[inhua]

@BigBlueEyes343 perhaps he never loved you as much to begin with as he had you believed

[BigBlueEyes343]

Probably right. But both supposedly loved me, but I loved them more. I was too nice, I loved them too much and they took me for granted, then they came back when they couldn’t find anyone better. I heard through mutual friends that they’d both tried, one with a woman nearly half his age and a virgin, one with a friend of mine who he had more in common with.

[BigBlueEyes343]

I’m open to discussing this, as you’ve been respectful in your disagreeing with me and you’ve made valid arguments.

[RyanK9b]

No, that can swiftly change if you don't have your game up.
If she notice that you're not that what she's dream about, are you dead within milliseconds

[Anonymous]

It depends on how much you have in common with her and if you have any chemistry and on both your characters and commitment to each other.

[Opinion Owner]

I would strongly suggest, if you’re feeling no greater than a B minus by the third date and haven’t wanted to kiss her, you should friendzone her.

[Jazzy54]

Wait, are the feelings mutual? Do you like her, too?

[DextroShade]

Yes, relationships only really work well if there's genuine desire.

[Adam1978]

Better chances then if she didn't.