How should I advance with this milff?

I setup to meet with a female that approached me at the mall for tmmr I didn’t ask but she must be 5-7 years older than me and she has 2 kids. I’ve never dealt with a girl with this type of situation but i’m guessing she’s just trynna hook- up I never flirted with her on text which I believe is a mistake but oh well. So now i’m trying to plan how I want the meet - up to go which is the troubling part, If she doesn’t flake I was hoping to pick up her up ask her if she wanted food (hopefully she does) then once we get the food tell her I got a hotel we can eat it at. Anybody who is experienced in this type of situation can give me some advice about how should go about this?
How should I advance with this milff?
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