What should I (19M) do moving forward with her (18F)?

[Anonymous]

I (19M) am dating this girl (18F) officially for a month. I know her schedule pretty well and she is truly one of the busiest person I know, and has lots of things going on in her life that is prioritized over dating. I completely support her ambition. Recently, I think I've been a little demanding to ask her out while she's on a super busy stretch, so, one day, I asked her, am I adding stress to her? and she sent me a long text basically saying that it's probably better to be friends because then she doesn't feel bad when she has to distant herself to focus on her work, and doesn't feel overwhelmed dealing with romantic emotions (she's introverted and has told me she needs to recharge often).

I believe we both have feelings for each other, so I hope to talk with her and figure out a solution to make her feel better, such as telling her it's okay to distance her self away for work, and it's fine to not interact with each other to recharge her emotions. This is both our first relationship and I don't know if what I said here is the best thing moving forward. Any advice would be appreciated.

[Selene1600000]

She’s telling you clearly that a relationship feels like pressure right now, even if she still likes you. Respect that by agreeing to step back instead of trying to negotiate a way to keep dating, because pushing will only make her feel more overwhelmed. If things are meant to work later, they will but right now the best move is to give her space and keep your dignity.

[HelpfulWoman]

i mean, your first relationship 9/10 times will fail. Just stick to friends as she is literally telling you how she feels and you're now ignoring it.

[Anonymous]

If you are a guy, why are you using a pink account.