Is a 9 year difference too much for dating?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe it's okay to date a guy that is 9 years older because if you become pregnant and you are up for 20 hours a day taking care of your baby, you will age faster than your husband if he works full time and does not do the infancy bottle feeding the way that you do. I see many mothers who look old after their pregnancy or child care days.

[_SillyShoes_]

To me it really sounds like it is.

The 'age is just a number' phrase makes no sense - because it's not true.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you are 23 and she is 14, it's a huge deal! If you are 27 and she is 18, it's a somewhat smaller big deal, but still significant. If you are 68 and she is 59 (me and my fiancée) it is insignificant.

[Honest-Matt]

If the girls age ends with -teen, it's young but ultimately, when someone is 18 they have the right to date whoever they choose even if they're 9yrs older.

[ShesRad80]

if both are consenting adults, if you all get along, no

[KateDemee]

Depends how old they both are but generally no I don't think so as long as you love each other

[bros26]

You forget to add...
Good sex too. No?

[KateDemee]

@bros26 wdym

[bros26]

I mean love is fine
But what about sex?

[WonderBell99]

Depends on how old the younger one is. Generally, I wouldn’t recommend.

[nastyb]

no it isn't. Anything over 10 years will cause hardship for the relationship down the road.

[gothbxtch]

i would say: no, unless the younger person is a teenager. if everyone’s in their twenties at least, it’s all good!

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

It depends on the ages but I think it is. Like a 28 year old woman and a 37 year old man? He would be almost 40!

[HippieVeganJewslim]

And the woman’d be almost 31.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Remember my mum was 20 and my father 26 or 27 when they married.

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

@HippieVeganJewslim so what’s your point?

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Age is a number. Love is love.

[TallAnon]

The age is less important the older people get, 61 and 70 is completely normal.
9 and 18 is fucking disgusting.
Once the younger person is over ~20, I will judge both, not just the older person.

[Fireguy17]

no, not now in your age group.
The older you get the less difference it makes.

[TheSpaceGnome]

As long as both are adults, 0-10 year differences are normal.

[Anonymous]

Statistically speaking it's right on the line.

[fonduegirl]

Definitely. Get your hands off her, creep.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Who says he’s a creep?

[fonduegirl]

@HippieVeganJewslim I do

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Don’t judge before thou getst to know them.

[fonduegirl]

@HippieVeganJewslim age gap relationships are wrong. Period

[HippieVeganJewslim]

An 11-year-old wanted to start a relationship with me. She was so beautiful, I couldn’t say no.

[fonduegirl]

@HippieVeganJewslim 🤮

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Canst Thou provide me with facts, like I did?

[FunkyMonkee]

No, my parents were 10 years apart.

[Jazzy54]

As long as they’re both adults, why not?

[___Clara___]

This is normal.

[Anonymous]

Depends on how old the younger party is.

[bros26]

Would you like 24yr old hard horny 9inch dick?

[Sammy786]

I don't think so.

[DermalPunch]

Not at all.

[sheikalana]

Not really.