Have you ever dated a drug dealer?

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My ex started dating a drug dealer a few months after we broke up and I’m just curious what’s the appeal? Apparently it’s exciting, what was your experience?

MysticAngel5000 · Accepted Answer

She is your ex. Don't worry about what she's doing. Dating a drug dealer isn't smart at all and you're better off without her. Don't try to get involved.

I have never dated a drug dealer, but I was in a long-term relationship with a former addict. He had issues with hard drugs as well as alcohol and claimed to be a couple years sober when we met. I had no judgment whatsoever. To me, the past was the past. I appreciated his honesty and also praised him for getting sober. We did end up separating and the exact reasoning is fairly spotty. With some of the behaviors, it actually scared me that he may have unfortunately went back down his old path again. I hope that was not true, but I will probably never know.

Either way, I am glad that relationship is over with for several reasons.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I had a former drug dealer crushing on me when I was 21.

He was the kind of man, so masculine, so strong and manly that I felt weak in my knees just by him hugging me. He was very sweet with me I couldn’t tell he was a drug dealer in the past. He was a true gentleman but you could tell intuitively that he was actually a very dangerous man and it was exciting.

I knew he was a drug dealer in the past and a player as well, and didn’t pursue the relationship with him. He, though, stays in my mind as one of the few men I truly wanted.

And he told my older cousin, whose classmate he was, that I am one of the few woman who ever really captivated him.

DaddyDiablo · Accepted Answer

So as an ex drug dealer dating was really a problem and depending on the drug things could have gone out of hand or simply just left or made some kind of respectful way possible of like leaving or splitting up or whatever and I met some cool girls and all but at the end of the day they all wanted one thing and it was the drugs money or whatever their little wish or desire or whatever and that's it. Like sometimes it can be cool and all but really just depends on mindset and if your on the same page in a very committed relationship or open or whatever to make it work and if it worked? It's kind of hard to really explain cuz no ones looking for love in the trap house lol

JustinTheGreat · Accepted Answer

my husband used to sell weed and other THC products like carts, edibles, etc.

It’s just weed so it never bothered me. If he was selling something more hardcore then I would be nervous having that shit in the house.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Not intentionally. We started dating at 14 and closer to 16 is when I saw what he was doing. I confronted him and he shoved it in my face. Ugh just horrible memories. I’ve been very strict since about not dating guys who smoke and of course deal. I met a great guy some months ago and we were talking. He was a single dad and I got past that but then he revealed his past involved having been previously jailed for dealing even harder drugs than my first boyfriend. I wanted to look past it but couldn’t so I ended it

midnightmoon05 · Answer

After my divorce. I went on a dating site. Met a nice guy who has a decent job. He was a social worker. Mom a pediatric nurse. Good upbringing, went to college. Kind. He likes to drink. Slowly I learned he really really likes to drink. Well… not a good idea that I have kids, they noticed and asked who he was drinking so much. then he also smokes weed… then I learned he met some dealers to get weed and “other things” like cocaine. I didn’t date the drug dealer. But him taking drugs was a deal breaker fir me. Your ex…. She is an ex and dating someone… not yiu. So you don’t matter anymore. Don’t compare yourself to drug dealers. Focus on the right woman who you will meet next and build a life together.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

No but i grew up around them but would never date one. If I "date" anyone it will be for marrige and I'd prefer him to have no criminal record but even if he do it depends on the circumstance and how long ago it was

Anonymous · Answer

Nope but currently dating a guy who helped out a drug dealer but I don't know if that really counts lol

JoeMichael67 · Answer

I'm guessing she's young, like early 20s? Young girls like bad boys. When they hit their late 20s most of them snap out of that mentality.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yeah, never again.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Nah. I’m not about that life.

sunflower00 · Answer

No and I never would tbh

Agape93 · Answer

Technically yeah

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