Why do some men don't want to work or help pay bills they leech off of a woman?

[Anonymous]

[Avicenna]

I don't think it's all that common, but it wouldn't be possible without the woman enabling it. She can always boot the guy out.

[BarryLiverstone]

Humans by default are lazy and want to make minimal efforts for results. So some try to take advantage of others

[XXblack88]

Because they haven't grown up mentally yet. Men like this need a sugar momma not an everyday girlfriend/ wife.

[Asker]

And then they say they don't want a woman who doesn't work.

[XXblack88]

Well, the dating market just got smaller for them.

[Billlewis]

I can't stand men who do that, because in reality, guys shouldn't be helping women pay their bills or clean their homes -- both of those responsibilities should be taken care of solely and exclusively by the guy alone.

[Asker]

It is easy for a guy to say that but in reality guys don't do it.

[Billlewis]

Oh, I'm well aware of that, believe me. Far too many guys make promises that they can't keep, and then they wonder why women don't trust them.

[Asker]

I don't understand why people say stuff that they don't do?

[Billlewis]

In the case of guys who often exaggerate their ability to properly serve a woman, I think many of them have a few beers and start messaging women and try to establish some kind of relationship with them, and they'll say anything to keep the conversation going.

[Anonymous]

Because these women allow it. It's just that simple. I mean I could tell you that these guys lack character but that goes without saying. And the girl is probably too stupid to realize that. So, you really can't feel bad for her. Stupid people have to learn the hard way sometimes.

[Asker]

It is easy for you to say until you been in those situations before.

[Opinion Owner]

No, it's really not when you know what a quality woman and a quality man is.

[Asker]

Usually the ones criticizing it are usually the ones who be in that situation.

[Asker]

Even though I'm anonymous maybe I need to block anonymous people from answering my questions so I know who you are and I can block you and I won't have to deal with pricks like you.

[Asker]

You are the one with a bad attitude calling people stupid when you never been in that situation yourself or know what really happens behind closed doors. I was making a true statement that people do criticize what someone else does and then turn around and do the same thing. I asked why do people do it like an explanation about it not about how stupid they are.

[Opinion Owner]

You should actually be happy about that, not mad. The realization that your stupid means you can now stop being stupid and stop making the same same stupid choices. You're looking at it the wrong way. Embrace it and rise above it. Become a better person, become a stronger person.

[Asker]

I was asking from what I see from other people not from my personal experience I'm not a judgmental prick unlike you. Actually a lot of people would get mad if you are calling them stupid because they are in a toxic situation. Why don't you become a better person because what you are saying about me is really a reflection of your ass.

[Asker]

And second of all you are not helping out because any therapist isn't going to sit down and call you stupid I mean I know not everyone has a degree but at least have common sense to know responding in criticizing people and calling them stupid is going to turn off a lot of people. No one is going to listen to you when you are talking to them like they are a piece of shit.

[Asker]

And I've told you I seen other people in those types of situations so you're just coming up with false assumptions on things you don't know about. Yeah I'm going to have a smart ass comment back if I feel that you are being rude. I'm not the kind of person that is going to allow people to talk crap in the comments especially if you're the one who started it with your response. I told you what I thought about your response and I'm pretty sure a lot of people feel the same way.

[Asker]

That's not being stupid you damn idiot I'm telling you some wisdom on how you are supposed to talk to people.

[Asker]

I don't have anymore desire to read what you have to say no more. I wish that it was an option where I can not see this post anymore.

[Asker]

Please leave me alone.

[Asker]

45 plus and when someone tells you to stop talking to them you keep going until you have the last word. I'm 20 years younger than you are and you can't just shut the hell up to save your life.

[Asker]

I think that you do when I tell you to leave me alone and you keep going so you can have the last word.

[Asker]

You better be glad that nobody beat the shit out of you because you are fucking annoying. It is my question so you're not telling me what to do.

[Asker]

You are very stubborn nobody told you but yourself to come here. There was no force to be on here. Actually you are harassing me because if I were on someone else's question I let it be.

[Asker]

So are you you're a hypocrite.

[Asker]

Shut the fuck up.

[Asker]

Shut the fuuuuuck up

[Asker]

Shut the fuck up and die already.

[Asker]

Go to hell when you die please.

[Asker]

I don't see you revealing who are you so that makes you a pussy.

[Asker]

The only reason why I'm anonymous because if I kill you they won't know who I am. I really won't kill you but I hope someone does.

[Asker]

Because you don't know how to leave people the fuck alone when they tell you to.

[Asker]

I keep sending separate messages to annoy the hell out of you like you are doing to me.

[Asker]

You're giving me a damn headache if I could and knew I get away with it I shoot you in your fucking mouth so you won't be able to to use it no more.

[Asker]

Damn block me or something let me rest.

[Asker]

That's understandable because you have gotten me to the point where I want to drink alcohol.

[Asker]

When it comes to you leaving someone the hell alone or them blowing your brains out. I guess you are the type to end up dead because you don't listen.

[Asker]

You don't know who I am I could be from the FBI or an Internet hacker don't think I won't find out where you are located and find you. Because when I do I'm going to shoot you and you be dead.

[Asker]

Clearly you are the problem when you know that someone is crazy and you keep messing with them. I guess death will teach you a lesson.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not messing with you I've been trying to talk some sense into since the beginning. I said from start point go "you're not victim" stop playing one. Take control of your life.

[Opinion Owner]

I can't make you better. You have to decide that.

[Asker]

People with sense if they know that someone is unstable they stop talking to them. Unlike you with no common sense you keep pushing someone. You don't think that it won't happen to you until it ends up happening because you are stupid.

[Asker]

If you fucking listen from the beginning I said I knew some people that were in those situations I have never lived with another person before in my life that isn't a family member. That tells me how intelligent you are because you don't even listen to what someone says right from the beginning of the conversation.

[Opinion Owner]

You're roght... ignore a problem, that'll make it go away. If you're unstable then you need help. But help doesn't mean telling you every goblin loose in your brain is valid.

[Asker]

If you read the last message I wrote that has never happened to me before the question I asked. You keep saying that it is me that is in that situation when I never ever lived with anyone before that wasn't a family member. I was asking based off from what I see from other people. If you open your fucking eyes and listen to what I say you won't be in this situation right now with me.

[Opinion Owner]

You're racing posts and chagrined the conversation. You never said any such thing. You're manipulative, that is clear. You cannot manipulate me.

[Opinion Owner]

Erasing posts and changing the conversation*

[Asker]

I've never said one time that I was in that position before I just said that if you never been in that situation before how do you know how to get out of it? Which I said nothing that involved me or I.

[Opinion Owner]

Did you ask this question? Yes you did. It really doesn't matter whether it's your situation or not if you still don't know the correct answer to it.

[Asker]

And I'm erasing only what you wrote because you get on my damn nerves. Because whatever you are applying to doesn't make sense to what I asked.

[Asker]

Clearly you don't know the correct answer yourself because you never been in that position before yourself either. All you want to do is talk about how stupid people are which makes no sense to the problem. That's your only response to anything that it is stupid.

[Opinion Owner]

You're erasing what I said because you're manipulative, that's obvious. When you don't like reality you try to change it. That's the big problem you have with me. I'm reality!

[Opinion Owner]

You want me to tell you what you want to hear and I won't do it. I'm going to tell the truth regardless. Sorry if the truth is unplatable to you.

[Opinion Owner]

I would never allow myself to be in that position hun. I'm smarter than that. I think more of myself than that.

[Asker]

No I'm erasing what you said like I said because you get on my damn nerves because all your responses to everything is how stupid I am and everyone else is. You could not ever pass an counterargument essay because your writing style is on a kindergarten level. That the reason why this happened because they are stupid
. That's an epic failed on your essay paper instead of going into depth into the psychological reason on why people do the stuff that they do.

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said you beer from reality. That's fin. Only you end up suffering in the long run.

[Opinion Owner]

Veer*

[Asker]

If you're Albert Einstein and such a genius and me and everyone else is stupid. Why are you talking to me? And why even bother talking to stupid people as you claim? Intelligent people know not to bother with people with low IQ levels. You can't argue with stupid even a smart person knows that. Because there isn't no winning with the stupid.

[Opinion Owner]

Not everyone, just you and people who ask stupid questions like this. Your question is the emotional intelligence equivalent of someone asking where does the sun go at night. Because anyone who knew what healthy relationship is knows that relationships are 100/100. They're not even 50/50. You don't stay with someone who wants to live off them. Both for them and for you. This is common sense stuff hun.

[Asker]

Still talking to me and not listening if you were smart like you say that you are you wouldn't keep talking to me. Which that tells me that you are a liar and think that you are just have a big ego. On here trolling so you can make yourself feel better about yourself by pretending that you are so smart. Do you even have a bachelor's degree from college? If that's a no then you aren't as smart to what you say that you are.

[Opinion Owner]

Still trying to manipulate me.

[Asker]

No I'm not trying to manipulate you I'm stating the obvious and plus if you were smart you know more about human behavior that usually people make choices based on their emotions not based on what makes sense. People are human and are going to make choices being emotional. I went to college and have a bachelor's degree from an university and planned on getting a masters degree. I study human behavior and know that people do stuff that doesn't make any sense all the time does it make them stupid no. They just made a stupid choice based on how they were feeling. People do all the time like stealing, rape, neglect , cheating and etc. You couldn't even tell me if you had a bachelor's degree or not that just tells me that you are full of shit.

[Asker]

Yeah you shouldn't be in places that you don't belong yourself. If the question was so stupid and you are so smart why did you answer in the first place? When you don't have in-depth response to the question to say how stupid it was. Like I said keep going into places you aren't supposed to be in and one day you get shot and won't be able to come back the next day alive.

[Asker]

And you don't even know who I am how do you know what I post on here or not just some stuff you made up. Because you're the only person on here I'm arguing with under this question. Unless you see some imaginary post on here.

[Asker]

Why don't you go get a life because you are a complete no life especially if you are on here arguing with me.

[Opinion Owner]

Nah, I'm just killing time. Occasionally I get to help people. And every now and then I fun into someone like you and then I just have a little fun. You're the cat and I'm teasing you with a string. You're on a one way road to he'll. There is no exits. Because you've already chosen it.

[Asker]

Goodbye go get a life this question is days old so whatever you have to say isn't going to make sense because it wasn't that serious in the first place. It really not that depth. Too old to be wanting to be the last to say something. Go get a girlfriend and maybe you'll feel better about yourself.

[Asker]

You're bitter because you can't get any pussy.

[Opinion Owner]

So you're done then.

[Asker]

No you are whoever posted the question wins because you choose to come here. It's like coming to someone else's house and refuse to leave that's what you're doing.

[Asker]

You get out of my house.

[Opinion Owner]

Get used to being disappointed.

[Asker]

You are not helping nobody calling them stupid that's why you can't get a girlfriend because you are always calling someone stupid all the time. Maybe they don't want your ass because you are a fat ugly nerd sitting at his computer screen or phone screen that's whole life is based on trolling people on their own questions as a living. Why don't you get a job so you can buy time and maybe have some money to buy you a prostitute at least so you can get you some pussy.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I think we've figured out why guys like to use you if you're always this pleasant.

[Asker]

Your hand doesn't count as pleasure sir.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure it does.🤣

[Asker]

You never had real pussy in your life. You can't get anybody unless they are on your level or below and the high for you is Rasputia Latimore from Norbit.

[Opinion Owner]

Did you really just sit and wait 4 hrs. For me to come back? 🤣🤣🤣
That's hilarious!

[Asker]

I don't know what you're talking about but excuse my last comment but Rasputia Latimore was really Eddie Murphy so you really like dudes that are trans so you can pretend that you're not gay. I know you really like dick so you like girls with dicks. I saw it in your internet history on your phone that you watch transgender porn with girls with dicks and boobs.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm living rent free right between your ears. The fact that you'd sit and wait 4 hrs. For me to return. How long did you work on this material? Was it the entire 4 hrs? Is it going as well as you imagined it would inside you head?🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

You ou really are gay when the only hole you've been in was the inside of some guy's asshole. I wish I can spam you some gay links of porn and go on your page and deliver a bunch of trans porn and that will teach you a lesson about having the last word.

[Asker]

You probably like that because you are gay.

[Asker]

So what am I kidding myself can't offend you by sending you chicks with dicks.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I'm not gay but hey, 10 bucks is 10 bucks.🤣

[Asker]

You are super gay you are only lying to yourself.

[Asker]

And you even admit that you do gay stuff for pay anyway saying 10 bucks is 10 bucks.

[Opinion Owner]

Nah, just thought of "women" like you existing is off-putting. Doesn't make me gay. Sorry to burst your bubble hun.

[Opinion Owner]

Well yeah, it's 10 bucks.

[Opinion Owner]

You do a lot more for slot less.🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

Clearly anything you say doesn't defeat the purpose that you're a faggot at the end of the day. That's why you downgrade on women so much is because you don't even like pussy.

[Opinion Owner]

You said that when you posted this question.

[Asker]

It is better than being a closet queer which is what you are.

[Opinion Owner]

Why all the bigotry?

[Opinion Owner]

What did gay people do to you?

[Asker]

You're so gay and you don't even like girls you don't even like you don't even like pussy. It come out sooner or later that you're gay.

[Asker]

They didn't do anything to me I'm just telling the world you're secret that you've been holding for years that you like boys.

[Opinion Owner]

Of course I don't like girls I like women. Sorry, you'd have to grow up and class up tremendously to even have a shot with me hun.

[Asker]

You like both boys and men. You're even a pedophile. You are the next Kevin Spacey you just haven't got caught with your 13 year old boyfriend yet.

[Opinion Owner]

🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

I hope you enjoy your imprisonment for having sexual relations with an underage boy.

[Opinion Owner]

It's not fair i'm at a disadvantage here. What insult can I possibly throw at you that God hasn't already thrown at you already? 🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

I'm middle Eastern so I can send my family from Iraq to come over and throw bombs at your faggot ass.

[Asker]

So what I've learned about you that you're a pedophile, gay, loser with no job, fat and ugly sho sits on the computer all day trying to make themselves feel better because you are the scum of the earth.

[Asker]

Who*

[Asker]

What I've learned about you is that you are pedophile, gay, loser with no job, fat, and ugly. Who does nothing but go on the internet to make themselves feel better because you are the scum of the earth.

[Asker]

I don't care whatever I can do to get you to stop talking to me I feel better because clearly you haven't learned to stop talking to me.

[Asker]

You make me sick even talking to you no telling how sick I'm going to be if I ever seen you in person. I'm throwing up right now.

[Opinion Owner]

You're the one that w I not shut up I'm just responding.

[Opinion Owner]

I've told you a dozen times you can end this at any time. You're clearly the one harassing me.

[Asker]

This song is for you

[Asker]

https://youtu.be/EK-vLK9IeV8

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not going to let bullies like you just have free reign here. No way.

[Asker]

I'm not going to let faggot ass pussies like you override me in my own question that you decided that you wanted to share with no force.

[Asker]

You're just upset with me because I told your darkest secret that you're gay.

[Asker]

Yeah but you're still gay at the end of the day no question to it.

[Asker]

That's funny that you didn't decide that you want to start reporting me until I started saying that you were gay.

[Asker]

I think you are a big liar because you got offended because I called you out on your secret.

[Asker]

You have frosty the snowman's dick in your mouth and the ice is a dick shape crystal that hasn't melt yet in your mouth.

[Opinion Owner]

Reported again bigot.

[Asker]

Goodbye

[Opinion Owner]

Adios

[Asker]

I said goodbye first

[Opinion Owner]

And I said adios.

[Asker]

Goodbye,

[Opinion Owner]

Adios.

[Asker]

Goodbye goodbye goodbye you sore loser.

[Opinion Owner]

Adios hun.

[Asker]

I wish girlsaskguys have it where I can delete this whole thing because you are petty. Just so you can have the last word. Goodbye

[Asker]

Don't be so petty we already went over 100 replays over some nonsense don't make it to 200. Where this never ends like I said it is my post so I have the say who ends it.

[Asker]

Since I can't delete it you delete it the whole conversation by deleting your question do something.

[Opinion Owner]

OK, I'll do something. I'll type "adios".

[Asker]

Doing something but deleted this from the fucking site.

[Opinion Owner]

I am doing something. I'm saying "adios".

[Asker]

You're not doing nothing but being stubborn. I never argued with anyone this far before.

[Opinion Owner]

Well congrats! Going for a personal best eh. And I'm not being stubborn I'm simply responding. You're the one that's funny to me. You say you want this to end. Yest you keep responding. I told you if you stop typing I'll stop responding. But then what do you do? You type again. So clearly you secretly love me. 😆

[Asker]

Don't even click on the notification you get on here.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok...

[Asker]

No response

[Opinion Owner]

I said OK.

[Asker]

Go to bed

[jahaims]

Some people are lazy. No big mystery to look into lol.

[Anonymous]

Because most women do the same to men without even thinking about it.

[Asker]

Call me old fashioned but it is better for the man to be paying all the bills than having the woman do it. That just looks like a pussy of a man in my opinion when the guy is living off the woman.

[Billlewis]

I couldn't agree more. Every bill, every month, all the time.

[Opinion Owner]

If you are “old fashioned”, are you also living up to the female side of the expectations?

[Asker]

Stay out of the comments. Because nobody was talking to you.

[Asker]

Oh I'm sorry ignore what I said I thought you were that other person.

[Anonymous]

Because they can get away with it.

[NajemEddineBR]

hardly the norm but the reverse is common

[Anonymous]

Oh, the irony!

[Jazzy54]

Lazy.

[Asker]

It is harder for women to get out of it then what you think.