Advice on this situation?

[Justasking_now]

I've been seeing this guy for a few months now, we are not together, we don't limit each other from seeing other people. The thing is I always go to his place and he's never been to my place. I don't feel like bringing someone to my place unless we are exclusive but he wants to come over to my place and spend time here but I don't feel comfortable doing that. Plus he thinks in hiding something because I don't let him come to my place. How should I go about this? Also I am scared to get close to anyone. Bring someone to my place is a big deal.

[Gent207-2]

Explain it - everything you just said here explain to him how significant it is to bring someone over and how you won't do so unless you're formally exclusive.

If he can't respect that - pack your shit from his place and RUN

[Justasking_now]

I don't want to be exclusive, I like where we are and I just want to find a way to tell him to back off a bit without losing him

[Gent207-2]

@Justasking_now
Then consider a test - can you sail under the command of a pirate or can you not?
- Johhny Depp

In this case can he accept and respect your boundaries and that of the relationship or can he not?
I hope you have the strength to walk away if necessary

[spartan55]

I don't blame him for feeling that way. I would recommend explaining it to him and if it doesn't take then you have a decision to make.

[Justasking_now]

I can see from his side that I might look suspicious and all, I feel like me bringing a man to my place is a big deal , I like where we stand, no expectations or commitment.

[spartan55]

Why do you think that brings expectations? Expectations of what?