Any advice on what to do in this situation?

[Anonymous]

So one of the guys I work with sent me a friend request on Facebook and I ended up confirming it. Then the next day he was messaging me on messenger. I’m not gonna get too deep into what we were talking about but he was saying how he thinks I’m cute and was asking me what my type was and stuff like that. Fast forward to now he stopped messaging me and I don't know if it’s because I was sending him one word answers or whatever the case was. But anyway I’ve been seeing him talking to one of my female coworkers offly a lot and i just felt like it was hella shady (by the way I’m not jealous). And I don’t want to reach out to him first because I don’t want to seem desperate. What should I do?

[Chris_Morgan]

My first impression is that he was probably messaging multiple women at once, and he started to get closer with your co-worker. Then he possibly decided that it would be a bad idea to continue messaging multiple women who work together so he picked one, and I think his actions are showing his intentions at the moment.

Just my opinion.

[virginloserguy]

Just message him.

[Asker]

I don’t know what message I would send him though

[virginloserguy]

Just talk to him. It is better than sitting around thinking about it all day.

[MrCommodore]

Probably your short responses that made him realise you aren't interested