Why do women say that the nice guy is boring?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

They generally are lacking in a understanding of what makes a "quality" guy. These women usually equate narcissism, cockiness and arrogance with confidence. And typically they find out later they're actually with a scared little boy who they haven't figured out yet.

But hey, they have to learn somehow If her daddy didn't teach her.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because many times the “nice guy” isn’t being honest and instead walking on eggshells to not upset her. Girls get bored when there isn’t a challenge or when she knows he is holding back. Make sense?

[richardcory]

I've heard that said a lot - but there are legitimately nice people, most people I know who appear nice ARE nice.

[CantMissIt]

@BarryLiverstone I think these are lies people say to make themselves feel better for choosing shitty people. There are actually quality guys that don't act cocky and badass if people give them a chance.

[BarryLiverstone]

Right I didn’t say they gotta be cocky. I said be authentic and set boundaries. Many nice guys fear holding people accountable

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats only a thing women who are assholes say.

Assholes prefer to date other assholes, because it provides a convenient way to divert attention away from the shit they do, and onto the shit the other person does.

Imagine a bitch dating a nice guy, he'd call her out on so much of her crap, and she would have nothing to counter with argument wise because he doesn't do the same shit she does.

If a girl thinks nice guys are boring, it's a huge red flag that she's not marriage material.

[Asker]

I agree

[TheSpaceGnome]

👍👍

[2rushbiOV3]

Are you expecting a man to explain to you the inner workings of the female mind? You’re vastly more qualified to answer this one than I am. I will say this, though, never be with a guy who describes himself as a “nice guy” because would you more than likely end up dealing with a narcissistic psychopath that’s about as deep as a puddle. Listening to the things a person says is important, but no where near as important as watching the things they actually do!

[Asker]

I didn't say guys, what do women say that the nice guy is boring in my question.

[Reem12345reem]

In other words , they think they don't deserve a nice guy , and they have low self worth bc they like sabotaging themselves by enjoying the drama of toxic guys who they find interesting and less boring , it's another form of self hate/harm , people cope differently , some with food, some with drugs , some with work , some with shopping and some with relationships :)

[worldscolide]

Depends on what you mean by nice guy.. Cause there are nice guys who are anything but nice, are usually abusive and manipulative. All the while screaming that they are nice guys.. Then there are nice guys who don't advertise it, who are actually the good ones.

[intovertedguy]

I agree with you. The "nice guys" you're talking about are bad guys pretending to be nice guys, the problem is many women are getting angry at the true nice guys because of the previously mentioned guys.

[CantMissIt]

I just think it's something that bitter women and the fuckboys (aka damaged people) say to make themselves feel better about the fact that good people are out there but they aren't those good people so they say the good guys are all just "pretending" so they can justify choosing crappy people. Crap attracts more crap and flies 💩

[MementoMori777]

they make assumptions that nice guys can't be fun i guess, even tho there's a difference between nice guys and good guys

[Asker]

They always go for the bad boy that's the one they want.

[MementoMori777]

you dont gotta keep reminding me anon, im aware of that but they dont all do, at the end of the day no woman marries the bad boy cause they are too immature and just simply dont give a womans feelings importance so to marry they usually go for the men that are marriage material, the good guys, so basically whores or immature women aim for only bad boys

[Asker]

How do you know that they be whores that like the bad boy they may genuinely like them and the good guy they probably don't like something about them that they are ugly or something about them they just don't like

[MementoMori777]

because bad boys dont show care to women so its only logical that they go for looks, whores bro 😂

they handle being mistreated because the guy is very attractive or they are attracted to the fake masculinity, that being aggressive and an idiot is masculine but its just not, a man is someone that treats a woman with respect and protects the woman, most women realize it when they are alone and have time to think of it tho

[intovertedguy]

You're right not all women who date bad guys are whores, some have just made a mistake and quickly learn from it and stop dating them.
The women who always date bad guys, even when they have been hurt by them several times, often have mental health issues, daddy issues or were victims of abuse.
Most people don't like to be hurt, including whores.

[MementoMori777]

exactly, shallow women exist but good women get taken advantage of as well

[Anonymous]

I've never heard a woman say this but I've heard many men say women say this. So I have no idea. Ask the men😅

Also if a woman says this it just means she has no value. So its better to stay away from her anyways.

[inhua]

apparently the word "nice" is code for "boring" which doesn't make sense because the two words are not synonyms

[RavVid]

I suspect boring means women don't detect a strong desire to get into their pants. Like in a boring husband.

[slatyb]

Some self-proclaimed nice guys are boring -- they have no outside interests. Some nice guys are very interesting.

[Jamie05rhs]

Because he is. We have developed a personality that is boring on purpose because we want her to feel safe. Because this is what we have been taught: that women want to feel safe.

[Nikki1989]

I have never heard any woman say that.

[Hithere4567]

Maybe they take things more slowly? Aren't too pushy and spend time listening to what a girl has to say?

[Exterminatore]

Because they don’t like predictable. They want to live soap operas not just watch them, and because they are broken.

[Rangers]

Cause it's not exciting for them when they know their boyfriend will remain faithful and caring to them

[XXblack88]

Cause nice guys don't know how to let their hair down and bend the rules a little.

[Anonymous]

Women who are looking for a husband don't say that very often.

[Asker]

You be surprised because a lot of young women say that about a guy and they always want the jerk over the nice guy.

[CantMissIt]

@anon yes they do.

[Christoff92]

Because they can't and don't know how to interact with a girl in being themselves and full of confidence.

[Anonymous]

It's true that some women love a relationship where they're treated badly because that makes them feel replaceable.
That's what it is.

[BLP11520]

Good question? Life is routine, life is work and mundane tasks. Boring? I am not. Bad guys are exciting but unreliable

[virtualwasp]

Nice guys are the best

[DrKrieger]

Because he's predictable

[Ms_Facesitter]

Because they're boring themselves.

[Anonymous]

women like chaos

men like structure and order

[Jazzy54]

Not this woman. I like the nice guy. 😊

[DarkLegacy]

Because they are shitty people

[DextroShade]

Because they belong to the streets.

[mommymommymommy]

The nice guy never goes for what he wants!

[Anonymous]

I don’t say that

[gothbxtch]

we don’t

[Asker]

You don't see it only other people can see it.

[justabuddy]

Because weman like that deserve the guys they get.

[Goodvibes2]

I dont know why do you think?

[JasonCruz]

I don't think all nice guys are boring.