Is she right that nice guys are boring?

[Anonymous]

[WonderBell99]

Nah, fuck her. She is probably going to end up in an abusive relationship. This woman seems to still have an immature outlook toward life. If she wants to have fun, sure, but potentially get into a relationship? Bad boys are an awful idea.

However, if she was talking about those disingenuous nice guys, then yeah, being desperate/entitled is not attractive

On the other hand, I like genuinely nice guys. They're referred to as gentlemen. My dad often says to me that I should look for a guy who is good with kids, knows how to take care of himself well, knows basic life skills etc and not "bad boys", because these nice guys are husband material and fuckboys are not. (I would like to have kids in the future; not implying that anyone who does not want kids is not marriage material).

I grew out of my bad boy phase. Bad boys are just frat/fuckboys with severe daddy issues. Fuck that shit. I ain't gonna be anyone's therapist.

I'd like my partner to be kind-hearted, fun loving, mature, good conversationalist, have a good sense of humor and good hygiene.

Gentlemen aren't boring. If that gentleman has a British/Australian/German accent, it's an added bonus. xD

[Asker]

Get back to your homework kiddo

[WonderBell99]

And when are you going to go back to Reddit? xD

[Asker]

Oh I'm on there simultaneously

[WonderBell99]

TL;DR Nice guys are not boring

[Asker]

Watch the video

[WonderBell99]

gotcha

[Asker]

good girl do as I say

[WonderBell99]

Bruh what

No, the video is long af. I gave my opinion. I dont need to watch the video

[Asker]

Jus click the gearbox and put it to 2x speed!
You need to hear it all !

[WonderBell99]

I thought you did not want a 'kiddo's' opinion? 🤔

[Asker]

Well I don't, but it will help you learn about your FEMALE NATURE

[WonderBell99]

I am a woman, women are people. There are POS men too

[WonderBell99]

@PrettyPriya @SueShe I had a good laugh reading the OP's comments. Thought I'd share it with you guys as well 🤣

[Asker]

Uh oh, calling in more of the weakling women squad, cuz one woman against one man can't get the job done. I see how it goes. You're proving my point more and more as this convo proceeds!

[WonderBell99]

Nah, I'm just tagging them so that they could have a good laugh as I am now.

And your attitude is probably why you're struggling to find dates xD

[Asker]

I'm not struggling to find dates, I'm struggling to find rational women

[WonderBell99]

Same thing, honey

How about you stop blaming women and do some self introspection?

[SueShe]

Looks like some "men" never leave childhood!

[WonderBell99]

@SueShe Fr, even some of my male friends are way more mature than the Asker

[WonderBell99]

What the fuck is a "hooe"?

And I never knew this was a competition? You're shitting yourself, man 🤡🤣

[Asker]

ok it's past your bedtime kiddo, go jump in bed with your stuffed animals tigers, lions and bears OH MY

[WonderBell99]

Nope, it's afternoon here xD

Not everyone lives in the U. S

[Intothevoid666]

Odd seeing a statutory crime in the comment section lol wtf

[userxvi]

NAY. She is old enough to hold a spear and hunt so that makes her grown up.

[WonderBell99]

@Intothevoid666 Pardon? Statutory crime? I did not make any remarks that go against GaG’s guidelines.

[userxvi]

also this is a perfect example on why you don't engage with people some people on the internet...

[WonderBell99]

@userxvi are you referring to me?

[userxvi]

I am referring to you interacting with Asker--its a waste of your time. The more you respond and interact the harder it is to make them go away. and the guy seems weird based on what he has said (no offense dude)

I wash my hands of this cespit. peace

[WonderBell99]

@userxvi oh, thank you very much 😊

I’ll keep that in mind. The Asker is most likely a troll, tons of those on GaG

[Intothevoid666]

Ur 17 the dude flirting with u is 25+. That’s illegal in most places just saying

[WonderBell99]

@Intothevoid666 I thought he was being a jerk? I was rude to him because he seems like a troll. I wasn’t flirting, I certainly wouldn’t flirt with anyone on GaG, especially a troll.

[Intothevoid666]

I was referring to him not u.

[WonderBell99]

@Intothevoid666 Oh, alrighty

[Sabretooth]

bad boys are just that--boys. they are weak.

[t-8900]

goddamn its so refreshing to see a woman raised with a father. You have so much wisdom at 17! damn girl!

[Snsl153]

Too long, didn't watch, but genuinely nice guys are not boring. Maybe that woman is just bored easily, or has nothing of value to offer anyone, and so she's trying to make up excuses for why she's still single.

[Guanfei]

We'll talk about that when she'll be 30, single mom, and that the bad guys she finds so interesting are dating younger girls with no kids.
When she'll see most of the nice guys she rejected and used having a real family and be happy with someone else, and the rest who won't want her because they know she just want someone to take care of her kids and her without asking questions.

[Anonymous]

Oh she thinks that, until she is approaching the big three oh, and all of her friends are married or getting married, then she'll start chasing them like no tomorrow, and then she'll find that the 'nice guys' she rejected are nowhere around and the 'Chad's and Tyrone's' she was 'dating' do not want to know her anymore.

[whereismyjohnny]

I didn't even watch the video and don't want to tbh. I don't think nice guys are boring. I like them 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

So why aren't you dating one?

(OOOOOOHHHHH !!!)

[whereismyjohnny]

Because I don't want a relationship at the moment. I'd always choose a good guy tho lol.

[Asker]

I doubt it

[whereismyjohnny]

Okay. I will not justify myself to you 🤷🏻‍♀️

[whereismyjohnny]

Ha ha.

[HeartFullOfGlue]

The only thing you're God of is your basement

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Yeah you do, someones got flooded not that long ago

[Asker]

@HeartFullOfGlue what

[HeartFullOfGlue]

what
Sorry about my previous comment, I saw my chance and I took it

[CasaNorba]

yes unfortunately, well at least from women's point of view. because after all in you are a night guys then you obviously will never give her anything to brag about in life. she also will not be able to use you as her drama pawn in life.

lastly, Barbarosssa explains it really well in this video...

https://www.youtube.com/embed/P8kIqQv5m-E

[McKellar]

There are guys out there who are boring as hell,... but look at it this way, there's no drama on their end, so respectfully they can't complain.

If those ladies want to stay in an abusive relationship,... although that is their choice, that's also their downfall.

[Sour-rose]

Yes... they are. They're boring and soon gonna be my bish if I keep him on my puppet strings long enough.

[GreyestClouds]

No, she’s an insufferable twat who only cares about herself. It’s people like her that become narcissistically abusive parents that their children grow to resent.

[Wise4myage]

Anybody can be boring, and that goes for females too.

[zagor]

No, lots of nice guys are not boring. And lots of assholes are boring.

[saffoler]

Yes, but boring equals happiness.

[dudeinohio]

I think. many women think so

[Asker]

really?

[dudeinohio]

Sure. They go after bad guys, because they appear to be more exciting.

[Asker]

so yer sayin I should be a prick?

[dudeinohio]

Nah.

[Pohjolan]

Are they really? Like how is Jocko Willink boring?

[Intothevoid666]

Nice guys suck at sex.

[Parthenogenesis]

I guess that depends on if a woman likes having a guy going down on her for an hour or two. Nice tends to be less aggressive / domineering in bed, not less attentive. Different strokes I suppose. I had a girl friend who wanted vigorous vaginal penetration but I think that a large majority of women would prefer the cunnlingus to the aggressive thrusting.

[Intothevoid666]

@Parthenogenesis Yeah different strokes but we all see which men women want to have sex with the most and it’s not nice guys. U act like only nice guys can and will give oral. Maybe they are more into oral but that doesn’t mean they are the only ones doing it and nice guys are not lasting an hour or two in bed let’s be real here. Nice guys also just simply don’t have as high of a sex drive.

[userxvi]

this is the stupidest thing I've read all day

[Anonymous]

Being boring is NOT a good dating strategy.

[MrSmithee]

often yeah