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'Nice guys are boring', is this statement true?

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Nice guys are boring, is this statement true?
Nice guys are boring, is this statement true?
Nice guys are boring, is this statement true?
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  • btbc92
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    Master Age: 31
    +1 y

    That is not a nice guy. That is just a guy. A nice guy is somebody who isny really mice. And bad boys are actually criminal type men. The one most womwn go for is misunderstood broken men. When are people going to get the terminology right!
    Anybody can make a so-called nice guy description that's down below with all of those lists. And I've been good friends with them. They are definitely not boring per se. But they over wall at times like the assertiveness to do what they got to do. Women should not approach him for a relationship solely for a relationship. Women overall should approach you like men should overall approach to build a friendship. If a man was arrested with a woman he needs to leave. A man is called to lead and provide. A woman is naturally on a biological level is not going to want a man who does not exhibit those qualities. And two men will call us if they embarrass themselves doing it start learning to show that to a woman a woman may not be interested. Some strong personalities are not going to like weaker ones or should I say those that are less assertive. More certain people and more competent people like being around other assertive and confident people. I think this pretty much fully explains it besides on a biological level.

    In the end it's just a bias opinion and it's not true. This comes from a guy obviously who's not happy, that's what that statement sounds like. Unless he speaking to a person who is not interested in less assertive men.

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  • Elsa143
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    Explorer Age: 23 , mho 45%
    +1 y

    That girl who tweeted that is a drama craving narcissist and probably a whore.
    No nice guys are not boring. It depends on the perception of people.
    I'm entertaining by nature and always got the topics to speak about then it won't be a problem. I value loyalty and won't tolerate fuckboys drama. I like real life drama, the way you learn new things and experience new opportunities or deal with new people professionally.
    It's not compulsory for everyone to be Interesting or act in a certain way.

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    • Elsa143
      Elsa143
      +1 y

      Fake nice guys are boring. They pretend to act dull to win your trust so that they can screw you. The real nice guys will give genuine vibes.

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    • Gabboo
      Gabboo
      +1 y

      exactly lmao.

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    • Gabboo
      Gabboo
      +1 y

      she would probably say this, then go cry to her little squad about "HOW MUCH OF A DOUCHE HE IS WAAH" 🙄 I am genuinely embarrassed for her

      Reply
  • NarutoUzumaki007
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    Explorer Age: 19
    +1 y

    Nice guys don't stand up for themselves.

    Also they beleive that just because they act "nice" in front of a lady , the lady will agree to fuck with them.

    That's not how it works. Being nice is something that should be natural. You shouldn't expect anything in return. Especially hoping a girl would be your gg just because you were "nice"

    Also there should be something else to your personality than just being "nice"

    Being nice in today's era means being a pushover. In my dictionary anyone who isn't a total douchebag is cool. Don't like over the top niceness

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    • NarutoUzumaki007
      NarutoUzumaki007
      +1 y

      Girl would be your girlfriend*

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  • Browneye57
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    Master Age: 66
    +1 y
    6.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    A 'nice-guy' is fake niceness in an effort to get into her panties. Girls see through this charade.
    A real man is 'kind', fuck the nice bullshit. Be on your life-mission, actually going somewhere and being someone, and women will be drawn to you. I guarantee it.

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  • AskMii
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    Xper 1 Age: 47
    +1 y

    That's bullshit! Why would I want a white for a hf who cheats n fights? Your goals are wack af! I loooove good guys. U be surprised if you actually spent time with one. Ladies like u got daddy issues. I only date good guys. They make great listeners, friends, open minded logical bn most are hardcore freaks! The ones that aren't can be taught what you like. They educated, with cars jobs n homes and they love and respect you. Why do you want a dog? He. ll argue with you, take yo money, use you, fuck you, then wife and take care of a good girl like me🤭 ladies, get your goals right

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  • Hangry22
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    Guru Age: 21 , mho 45%
    +1 y

    I don't think nice guys are boring. All the nice good guys i met are manipulative, toxic and play mind games well that they make us think if such goody guys actually exist. And all their friends call them too nice

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  • Dongtai
    Dongtai Follow
    Yoda Age: 105 , mho 32%
    +1 y
    677 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    It’s all about balance. Don’t be so nice to the point where you have no backbone and don’t know how to say no but don’t be so bad that you burn everything you touch.


    Have an inner monster and master it. Know when it’s necessary to unleash it and when to keep it tame.

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  • Hurlyburly
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    Guru Age: 31 , mho 47%
    +1 y

    "Nice" isn't necessarily boring, but its not a personality trait. You could be nice and the most exciting person on earth. You could be boring and an absolute asshole.
    But yea, if your whole being consists of not treating others in the worst way possible and you do not have anything else to tell or show then yes, you are boring.

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  • MzAsh
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    Guru Age: 38 , mho 52%
    +1 y
    900 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Bad boys are the boring ones. I can always one up them. Oh you’re gonna ghost me? I’ll make you a ghost, bitch.

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    • Unit1
      Unit1
      +1 y

      I like that strong mindset :D More women should adopt this!

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    • TechGirl26
      TechGirl26
      +1 y

      Do you understand that bad boy is just a term

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    • Elsa143
      Elsa143
      +1 y

      @MzAsh same here ! Apart from ghosting, they're too busy showing off their fake charming personalities and tear their asses off to appear like a macho man.

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  • locutus9999
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    Xper 6 Age: 41
    +1 y

    sorry but were sre the regular guys? is like they didvided this shit in half and a half... i have lots of defects... I do not consider miself a good neither a bad guy... I am a regulsr guy... have my kinks, strong character, but i am also caring. somethimed tender , somethines not... i mean what the f... i am just normal... can someone realize that most do not fall in good neither bad?

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    • mindNsoul
      mindNsoul
      +1 y

      so true!

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    • locutus9999
      locutus9999
      +1 y

      @mindNsoul yes is crazy!!

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  • ThatQuietLass
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    Xper 6 Age: 23 , mho 46%
    +1 y

    Only the "nice guys" who blame women for every inconvenience and think we're going all golddigger sluts who just can't keep our legs closed. Oh, and who constantly abort babies. But daamjt us sluts NEVER sleep with them even if they call us pretty or hold a door open for us.

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  • Twalli
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    Master Age: 32
    +1 y
    3.6K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Maybe we're boring. Maybe we finish last, but that means when you choose us, you don't choose anyone else. We get vf the girl for life. So who'd really the winner? The 60 year old single asshole or the 60 year old married nice guy who has been married 30+ years with kids?

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  • Lone_wolf122
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    Xper 5 Age: 26
    +1 y

    The " nice guys " people refer to are usually not nice guys... They're desperate guys... in reality nice guys are nice to everyone not only girls and not for a goal or something in return... And they usually don't go for " bad girls "... They can have fun with them but don't value them and they settle down with a more like a lady type

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  • Alyssa11
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    Yoda Age: 25 , mho 36%
    +1 y

    Wellllll, as a sensitive and emotional woman, I only like nice guys. I could never ever be attracted to a mean guy. I'm just not built for it.

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    • ramchandra9971
      ramchandra9971
      +1 y

      Thnx buddy

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    • Alyssa11
      Alyssa11
      +1 y

      @ramchandra9971 No problem :)

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    • ramchandra9971
      ramchandra9971
      +1 y

      😇...

      Reply
  • Iwasthinkingif
    Iwasthinkingif Follow
    Xper 4 Age: 24 , mho 39%
    +1 y

    Some people like drama, they don't love themselves enough to accept the love of an honest and good person. This is called toxicity.
    Nice guys are not boring.

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  • Gabboo
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    Xper 4 Age: 31
    +1 y

    HELL NO. Maybe do dumb asses maybe, but I would rather a nice guy with cheesy humor and a good heart than some douchebag who treats people like pawns

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    • Gabboo
      Gabboo
      +1 y

      maybe to dumb asses.. sorry I kinda blurred out when I was typing this 😅

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    • ramchandra9971
      ramchandra9971
      +1 y

      Thnx for the praise... I compliment your choice

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  • Paul09
    Paul09 Follow
    Yoda Age: 41
    +1 y
    917 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    I'm try to be a nice guy. And I am far from boring. Oh and I actually listen to what you have to say. I can also be a bad boy when needed. So all this generalizing and assumptions are garbage. Especially that nice is a positive thing, not a negative. Yes there is fake nice guys for sure.

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  • lilyanony1
    lilyanony1 Follow
    Yoda Age: 32 , mho 46%
    +1 y
    363 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Nice guys are the best but they are cautious especially when they meet a woman they think is more outgoing than them. They much like nice women pass up nice guys simply because they are more extraverted than them

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  • iseekpinetrees
    iseekpinetrees Follow
    Guru Age: 32 , mho 43%
    +1 y
    909 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Lol this is true in a sense but boring is better. Boring is usually no drama and for some people they need drama in their lives.

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  • boggboss m
    boggboss Follow
    Master Age: 28 , mho 30%
    +1 y
    9.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Deoends on definitions of what people mean for a start as everyone defines bad boys differently whilst I guess nice guys tend to be defined as guys are more a kin to being a best friend over a partner or emotional punching bag

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  • hellionthesagereborn
    hellionthesagereborn Follow
    Guru Age: 38 , mho 47%
    +1 y
    1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

    No. At least I've never been called boring (despite being rather boring honestly, at least as far as activities are concerned). I've been called crazy, been called a lot of things to be honest, but not boring.

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  • testersite00
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    Xper 5 Age: 21 , mho 51%
    +1 y

    its not that "nice guys are boring", its that "nice" isn't a personality trait. nice is the bare minimum to be a person in this society. nobody wants to be around an asshole. so if someone says you're nice it really means you are boring.

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    • Gravit1
      Gravit1
      +1 y

      Some people get a kick out of hanging out with so called "jerks", it depends who they are jerks to. Some people are too rough for society, but quite interesting people. Society doesn't know what it wants, people who defy it are more lively, but get labeled "jerks". I find the societally constrained to be much less pleasant to be around. More often so called jerks tend to be honest, something lacking in society.

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    • testersite00
      testersite00
      +1 y

      @Gravit1 yes! i get what you are saying, and i agree. by assholes i primarily mean people who constantly shit on the people they are with, in a non-joking way. like people who are mean to others because they get a kick out of it. the average person does not want to be around those types of people, so they band together. others that are labeled as "jerks" when in reality they are just blunt and logical are rare to find but essential if we want to move forward

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    • Gravit1
      Gravit1
      +1 y

      Yeah, just that label gets thrown around. The brutally honest break sugar coats. Though people that are egregious for the sake of causing suffering, no one wants that.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    Very true!
    You know who isn't boring?
    That fat 50 year old rich businessman, who drives a G wagen. Girls in their 20s absolutely love them the most!
    Wanna have a beautiful 20-something year old girlfriend or 2 of them? Become a rich businessman. By the time you are one, you'll be 50 years old. So don't delay and start now.

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  • UnknownGagsUser
    UnknownGagsUser Follow
    Guru Age: 25
    +1 y
    692 opinions shared on Dating topic.

    Not true to those who like nice guys and true to women who love bad boys lol

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    • Tonytoutouni123
      Tonytoutouni123
      +1 y

      What about you?

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    • Tonytoutouni123
      Tonytoutouni123
      +1 y

      @UnknownGagsUser
      What typ of these 2 do you prefer?

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    • UnknownGagsUser
      UnknownGagsUser
      +1 y

      Nice guys.

      Reply
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