'Nice guys are boring', is this statement true?

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btbc92 · Accepted Answer

That is not a nice guy. That is just a guy. A nice guy is somebody who isny really mice. And bad boys are actually criminal type men. The one most womwn go for is misunderstood broken men. When are people going to get the terminology right!
Anybody can make a so-called nice guy description that's down below with all of those lists. And I've been good friends with them. They are definitely not boring per se. But they over wall at times like the assertiveness to do what they got to do. Women should not approach him for a relationship solely for a relationship. Women overall should approach you like men should overall approach to build a friendship. If a man was arrested with a woman he needs to leave. A man is called to lead and provide. A woman is naturally on a biological level is not going to want a man who does not exhibit those qualities. And two men will call us if they embarrass themselves doing it start learning to show that to a woman a woman may not be interested. Some strong personalities are not going to like weaker ones or should I say those that are less assertive. More certain people and more competent people like being around other assertive and confident people. I think this pretty much fully explains it besides on a biological level.

In the end it's just a bias opinion and it's not true. This comes from a guy obviously who's not happy, that's what that statement sounds like. Unless he speaking to a person who is not interested in less assertive men.

Elsa143 · Accepted Answer

That girl who tweeted that is a drama craving narcissist and probably a whore.
No nice guys are not boring. It depends on the perception of people.
I'm entertaining by nature and always got the topics to speak about then it won't be a problem. I value loyalty and won't tolerate fuckboys drama. I like real life drama, the way you learn new things and experience new opportunities or deal with new people professionally.
It's not compulsory for everyone to be Interesting or act in a certain way.

NarutoUzumaki007 · Accepted Answer

Nice guys don't stand up for themselves.

Also they beleive that just because they act "nice" in front of a lady , the lady will agree to fuck with them.

That's not how it works. Being nice is something that should be natural. You shouldn't expect anything in return. Especially hoping a girl would be your gg just because you were "nice"

Also there should be something else to your personality than just being "nice"

Being nice in today's era means being a pushover. In my dictionary anyone who isn't a total douchebag is cool. Don't like over the top niceness

Browneye57 · Accepted Answer

A 'nice-guy' is fake niceness in an effort to get into her panties. Girls see through this charade.
A real man is 'kind', fuck the nice bullshit. Be on your life-mission, actually going somewhere and being someone, and women will be drawn to you. I guarantee it.

AskMii · Answer

That's bullshit! Why would I want a white for a hf who cheats n fights? Your goals are wack af! I loooove good guys. U be surprised if you actually spent time with one. Ladies like u got daddy issues. I only date good guys. They make great listeners, friends, open minded logical bn most are hardcore freaks! The ones that aren't can be taught what you like. They educated, with cars jobs n homes and they love and respect you. Why do you want a dog? He. ll argue with you, take yo money, use you, fuck you, then wife and take care of a good girl like me🤭 ladies, get your goals right

Hangry22 · Answer

I don't think nice guys are boring. All the nice good guys i met are manipulative, toxic and play mind games well that they make us think if such goody guys actually exist. And all their friends call them too nice

Dongtai · Answer

It’s all about balance. Don’t be so nice to the point where you have no backbone and don’t know how to say no but don’t be so bad that you burn everything you touch.

Have an inner monster and master it. Know when it’s necessary to unleash it and when to keep it tame.

Hurlyburly · Answer

"Nice" isn't necessarily boring, but its not a personality trait. You could be nice and the most exciting person on earth. You could be boring and an absolute asshole.
But yea, if your whole being consists of not treating others in the worst way possible and you do not have anything else to tell or show then yes, you are boring.

MzAsh · Answer

Bad boys are the boring ones. I can always one up them. Oh you’re gonna ghost me? I’ll make you a ghost, bitch.

locutus9999 · Answer

sorry but were sre the regular guys? is like they didvided this shit in half and a half... i have lots of defects... I do not consider miself a good neither a bad guy... I am a regulsr guy... have my kinks, strong character, but i am also caring. somethimed tender , somethines not... i mean what the f... i am just normal... can someone realize that most do not fall in good neither bad?

ThatQuietLass · Answer

Only the "nice guys" who blame women for every inconvenience and think we're going all golddigger sluts who just can't keep our legs closed. Oh, and who constantly abort babies. But daamjt us sluts NEVER sleep with them even if they call us pretty or hold a door open for us.

Twalli · Answer

Maybe we're boring. Maybe we finish last, but that means when you choose us, you don't choose anyone else. We get vf the girl for life. So who'd really the winner? The 60 year old single asshole or the 60 year old married nice guy who has been married 30+ years with kids?

Lone_wolf122 · Answer

The " nice guys " people refer to are usually not nice guys... They're desperate guys... in reality nice guys are nice to everyone not only girls and not for a goal or something in return... And they usually don't go for " bad girls "... They can have fun with them but don't value them and they settle down with a more like a lady type

Alyssa11 · Answer

Wellllll, as a sensitive and emotional woman, I only like nice guys. I could never ever be attracted to a mean guy. I'm just not built for it.

Iwasthinkingif · Answer

Some people like drama, they don't love themselves enough to accept the love of an honest and good person. This is called toxicity.  Nice guys are not boring.

Gabboo · Answer

HELL NO. Maybe do dumb asses maybe, but I would rather a nice guy with cheesy humor and a good heart than some douchebag who treats people like pawns

Paul09 · Answer

I'm try to be a nice guy. And I am far from boring. Oh and I actually listen to what you have to say. I can also be a bad boy when needed. So all this generalizing and assumptions are garbage. Especially that nice is a positive thing, not a negative. Yes there is fake nice guys for sure.

lilyanony1 · Answer

Nice guys are the best but they are cautious especially when they meet a woman they think is more outgoing than them. They much like nice women pass up nice guys simply because they are more extraverted than them

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Lol this is true in a sense but boring is better. Boring is usually no drama and for some people they need drama in their lives.

boggboss · Answer

Deoends on definitions of what people mean for a start as everyone defines bad boys differently whilst I guess nice guys tend to be defined as guys are more a kin to being a best friend over a partner or emotional punching bag

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

No. At least I've never been called boring (despite being rather boring honestly, at least as far as activities are concerned). I've been called crazy, been called a lot of things to be honest, but not boring.

testersite00 · Answer

its not that "nice guys are boring", its that "nice" isn't a personality trait. nice is the bare minimum to be a person in this society. nobody wants to be around an asshole. so if someone says you're nice it really means you are boring.

Anonymous · Answer

Very true!
You know who isn't boring?
That fat 50 year old rich businessman, who drives a G wagen. Girls in their 20s absolutely love them the most!
Wanna have a beautiful 20-something year old girlfriend or 2 of them? Become a rich businessman. By the time you are one, you'll be 50 years old. So don't delay and start now.

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Not true to those who like nice guys and true to women who love bad boys lol

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