Would you date someone for 7 months if you see no future with them or you feel there is something and you will continue to date?

[Anonymous]

[Avicenna]

For me, that depends on why I don't see a future with her? If it's because she decided she didn't want to have kids and I do, then there is really no reason to hang around- it would be a waste of time.

If, instead, I don't see her as marriage material and I really want to get married but things are generally OK in the relationship, I probably wouldn't break up with her.

In a nutshell, if you're in a hurry to accomplish something and know you can't with that person, don't stick around. If the relationship is not going well and you don't see a long term future, don't stick around. Otherwise, it's probably OK to let it ride a bit.

[Asker]

I love her and see my future with her as well, she has told me she likes me and has feelings for me. I wanted to know how do I show her that she means a lot to me and that i am very serious about her and want a real long term relationship with her @avicenna

[Avicenna]

First of all, tell her that. And show her if you haven't already.

[FabianaMartha]

When I feel that we have no future, I know that I don't love him very much, so people who love each other can't feel the future

[Nikki1989]

No, I would be done within a week or two.

[Asker]

So if he says he loves you and she says she likes you and has feelings for you too. Does she a future with him?

[Asker]

Does it mean she thinks she has a future with him too?

[Asker]

@nikki1989

[Anonymous]

If the sex is good and she isn't too annoying, sure.

[Emmy87]

I did , and I badly regret it , it’s harmful

[In_Trance]

yeah