I’ve just decided that I probably don’t want to get married. Is it ok to half heartedly do speed dates and go to formal dances?

[HappyWoman34]

[Anonymous]

That sounds really fun, you should do things you enjoy I wouldn't say be half hearted but put your heart into the moment not the search. You don’t know who you will meet and you are free to change your mind anytime and you might make good friends if nothing more.

[Ben487]

yes I think that's fine. I think there are many definitive benefits in marriage but I can also see a few downsides and if it's not for you it's not for you.

[HappyWoman34]

So do I, but I haven’t met the right person.

[rebeliouse]

would u like more sex?

[HappyWoman34]

@rebeliouse no

[SnowedIn]

It's okay to do them. But be honest with the guy.

And don't be half hearted -- that's no fun for you. Either do it or don't.

[rebeliouse]

ye its fine it means u can have a lot of friends with benefits and enjoy a vary varied sex life :D

[rebeliouse]

do u have lots of sex?

[HappyWoman34]

Uhm.. not sure how we got to talking about sex but no.

[rebeliouse]

sorry meant to ask here do u want more sex?

[HappyWoman34]

Not really

[Meropatrick]

U dont seem to need marriage in your life right now. But before u date Anyone u need to make it clear that u r not seeking marriage

[Anonymous]

Yes, do whatever your heart desires.

[sheenagwapa]

you go girl!

[In_Trance]

sure

[JohnK123]

yeah why not?