Has Taylor Swift Dated too many people?

[Smashingdoozy]

[JustinTheGreat]

I never understood why Taylor always got shit for her relationships. A lot of artists in the industry jump from relationship to relationship and write music about their exes.

I did find it weird that she was in a relationship for 6 years and then immediately started dating someone else after the break up.

She just seems like the kind of person who can’t be alone and always depends on a relationship for happiness. Which is kinda sad. But like I said, a lot of artists do the same thing and they can’t get nearly as much hate for it. Ariana Grande for example is the exact same way

[Smashingdoozy]

Given how quickly that happened I believe it was a stunt to get people to stop talking about her and Joe

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I think it's less that she's dated too many people and more that she has a reputation for being rude, disingenuous... And on top of all the hat she was with too many people.

Who would look at her and be like "oh yea, she's gonna make for a strong and long relationship"

The again, enough people dated her, gotta figure there's something pretty special about her. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Lenanolena]

You clearly don't know anything about her

[Telekinetic-Potato]

@Lenanolena why's that?

[YesterdaysChild]

Maybe she is like some of the starlets in the 60's who let every guy in line nail her.

[kylee2437]

I think this is just a normal thing for celebrities. Celebrities have too many options

[Inbox]

Yeah, it must be hard to satisfy someone when they’ve been at the top for so long

[kylee2437]

@inbox that’s literally the reason why 5 billionaire individuals got into a craft that was deemed unsafe in 20 different ways.

[Inbox]

@kylee2437 Woah... no. You're making a lot of assumptions about people you almost certainly don't know or even met. It could simply be that they assumed nothing would go wrong because the sub was actually fitted to be able to reach the Titanic at that depth, but there was a defect in the external part of the sub that caused an implosion at those depths about an hour and 45 mins into the ocean's depths according Per Wimmer.

Also, if you study maritime law, many regulations can be sidestepped when you're doing something in international waters. We can't assume the passengers knew or did not know anything because people of high net worth often have secondary, third, or even fourth parties doing those jobs for them - for example, for my portfolio, I have 3 - 4 different advisors, but I make the ultimate decision whether to move forward on an investment or business decision simply because I only trust a few people with my money and they're my parents.

I don't know if you've been around high net worth people, but part of the reason why they're successful is because they have good employees working under them (the legs or arms of the human body for example) and even they make stupid decisions (overly leveraged on stocks or debt in real estate, etc).

In other words, you're looking at the external, then judging the internal. Until we get more evidence on their way of thinking (I haven't seen any yet), being wealthy is only a factor to consider vs an assumption.

[kylee2437]

@inbox in that context then we are just making assumptions of people we don’t know, but typically human life that is satisfied with life doesn’t go and seek pleasure in stuff where the captain announced in 20 different ways that it’s a bad aircraft. Sorry I don’t hold much compassion for overly rich - I feel like they hit a dent in their wallets where life becomes taken advantage of

[Inbox]

Again, you’re making the assumption that because they have wealth or lived a full life, it equates to the ignorance of those 20 warnings. We don’t know what was their thought process. For example, they may not have even heard of the warnings because their friends or advisors told them not to worry (peer pressure affects rich folk too) —— were they stupid not to listen to the warnings if they did know? Of course and they paid the ultimate price.

When Steve Jobs started Apple, everybody thought he was being irrational and stupid by throwing everything he had in one shot and in the end, it ended up becoming on the most valuable companies on Earth. Had it not succeeded, we’d be calling him stupid too and I wouldn’t be using this IPhone to type this opinion.

Point is, it is true that wealth or living a full life does not excuse you from being ignorant, but similar to law cases when I’m in the courtroom, people always tend to assume for cynical reasons on why X or Y happened when they don’t know anything about the law or its processes in the legal system —this is in its own self, ignorant.

[kylee2437]

I disagree , having too many options In life takes away common sense logical. I won’t let up on that idea just because people passed away. They passed away because regular activities are no longer exciting to them

[kylee2437]

Logic **

[Inbox]

“They passed away because regular activities are no longer exciting…. Okay, but as I’ve said twice now, you and I are not multi billionaires, so we don’t know what they see, how they see things, etc. Everything is case by case Kylee. A lot, if not most of things we humans take for granted actually came from billionaires because they’re often eccentric and the innovative ones hehe.

If I went in a sub, would you assume normal activities no longer excite me? I’m obviously not a multi billionaire, but most multi millionaires are actually quite normal with their lifestyle - a lot for the nonsense you see on TikTok, YT, IG, etc are just rare exceptions or they’re just faking it.

Look, we can keep going in circles about this, but just understand that you’re making a huge assumption about why they were ignorant based upon only a single factor (kind of like saying if that guy was black, he’s a criminal) —— and assuming for a lot of people, not just one person.

[kylee2437]

We can agree to disagree. I don’t have enough empathy to empathize with people that have more money than 99% of the world.

[Jaximus-Lion]

12 relationships and counting and she is 33 years old. That the media/people know of, so! Who cares 🤷‍♂️. I knew a guy whom had a new girlfriend every season, so 4 relationships a year and i knew him about 5 years, so that lead to 20 girls that i know of plus he had some one night stands in between. Who cares 🤷‍♂️.

[Drewtate]

Taylor is 33. She's probably going to have a baby soon and as her career winds down heading to 40 it will probably turnout that she is a lesbian and wasn't really dating those guys.

[inhua]

she's never going to pair-bond to any of the men she'll ever date

her songs are proof of this

[lightbulb27]

hopefully she's learned a lot about herself. she's young and can probably date another one or two, but if wants kiddos should settle down.

[PointTaken]

No. She has a goal of 500 in a year. I think she's getting close. Doesn't she want like 1,000,000 so she can make hit songs to make fun of them?

[Smashingdoozy]

She's dated like 12 people since she was in highschool... Not even close

[PointTaken]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[purplepoppy]

Dozens of songs about break ups, none about blowjobs, anyone else spotting a pattern here?

[loveslongnails]

Too many for whom? Or what? LOL I don't know how many, nor do I care really. Have at it girl, as it appears to give you a ton material to write songs about!!

[NathanDavis]

how many are too many?

[Siri137]

How many is "too many"? Ten? Twenty? Thirty?

[exitseven]

You do not include an accurate count so I really don't know.

[Smashingdoozy]

She's dated about 12 people. Maximum 15. But a few of those were just guys she was seen with once which I don't think count

[exitseven]

She is okay. Let's face it, if you are a star you have to go to all kinds of functions. You probably have to go with a date and it is all about publicity. I do not know her personally and don't know many of her songs but she seems like she is very nice.

[slatyb]

No, she hasn't. There is no such thing as having "dated too many people"

[Massageman]

Celebs do a LOT of things to stay in the headlines. More importantly, why does it really matter in OUR lives?

[Meropatrick]

Its typical nowadays for women to date many. I get surprised sometimes when i see how many men Some female celebrities dated

[DutchessDahlia]

No. But I don’t get why she’s the only chick in the world who can sleep around and not be hardcore slut shamed like every other woman just because she sings about it.

[AngryCarl2]

There's no "right number". You might have to try on many shoes before you find a pair that fits.

[Christoff92]

Hey she want to flirt around its her business. Ain't going to be distracted towards someone's downfall ☺️

[legalboxers]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/nfWlot6h_JM

so they say...

[msc545]

Yes, she has. She has serious problems with men.

[Smashingdoozy]

How many is too many?

[Anonymous]

I didn't realize there were limits. I guess it's like hunting or fishing.

[Anonymous]

I never dated her.

Why?

Did she say something about me? ;)

[Jamie05rhs]

I "liked" this question because it was interesting. And because I don't know the answer.

[Cubus]

Like most celebrities. They jump from flower to flower.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's the norm in Hollywood. They past each other around like a hot potato.

[OddBeMe]

How much is too many people? Bottom being Tom Hanks and top being Leo DiCaprio?

[scooogy]

I don't know why, but this made me think of Godzilla for a second.

[TallAnon]

No idea, I don't know anything about her; I think she does music?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Hell yeah all of those celebrities are all over the place

[MementoMori777]

taylor swift got problems

[Smashingdoozy]

It's me, hi, I'm the problem it's me

[MementoMori777]

im sure you got your own but if anything you should be her therapist

[Smashingdoozy]

It's one of her songs lmao

[MementoMori777]

oh 🙃

[LazerBean]

Yeah, but that's pretty normal for celebrities.

[Jersey2]

Well, she can’t make them stay.

[Smashingdoozy]

She was in a relationship for 6 years 🤨 pretty normal to have multiple different relationships in your 20s

[Jersey2]

Actually it’s one of her lyrics, I though you would spot it.

https://youtu.be/8xG7mH8i-WE

[Smashingdoozy]

True... The song she wrote to make fun of the people making fun of her

[elizamichale1]

There's never too many honey

[BLP11520]

right

[mommymommymommy]

That's how she makes her money

[Smashingdoozy]

By dating people? Think she's doing a lot better single and selling out stadium concerfs

[mommymommymommy]

I don't go to them, I'm a dude.

She sells her tickets, by dating and writing about them

[Smashingdoozy]

So the same thing as most other artists?

[mommymommymommy]

If you want to call them artists, sure, but, isn't that mainly what country is. All about heartbreak. Isn't she originally "country", she only became "pop" because of who she is, and how she looks

[Smashingdoozy]

Most music is about love interests. Across all genres.

[mommymommymommy]

Nope

[Smashingdoozy]

Yes...

[mommymommymommy]

nope!

[Smashingdoozy]

Name a band or individual who doesn't sing about their love life

[mommymommymommy]

most metal bands, don't, if not all

[Smashingdoozy]

Uhhhh yes they do... 😂 Nothing else matters, Metallica. Wasting love, Iron Maiden. Snuff, skipknot. Don't even get me started on Black Sabbath or Led Zep SO MANY LOVE SONGS.

[Redstang88]

No idea, haven’t kept track

[Anonymous]

For her age, not at all.

[boobliker]

maybe not as she not dated me yet!

[DextroShade]

Yes she has been ran through.

[Sparkie460]

No I think she's fine

[BLP11520]

How many has she?

[Smashingdoozy]

Like 12 since she was in highschool

[BLP11520]

that is not too many

[Anonymous]

She a celeb. Celeb's have different rules.

[eagle1951]

heck no keep going girl

[Goodvibes2]

No because she hasn't dated me yet

[Anonymous]

she hasn't suvked my balls so who cares, right

[Jazzy54]

Her life. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Anonymous]

it's normal.

[LiamJHayden]

Maybe