I’m so tired of being single and lonely I feel like I’m never gonna be good enough for anybody to want. I hate this feeling I’m 40. I’m 45 years old and have never been married. This sucks. All I do is work and go home. I never go out nobody ever approaches me or asks me to go out. I think I’m funny. I think I’m pretty I’m not a dummy. I keep myself up. I’m not sure what’s wrong with me.
I'm almost 100% sure I'm gonna die alone and I've been sad for at least 7 years, now.
I'm in the same boat as you only worse. So far, I've only ever had 3 girlfriend's and all three were married at the time!! On top of that, thanks to my greedy ex-sisters, I lost my house and half of my life and now, because of my stupid aunt, I might end up losing this house, too!!
I'm also funny, quite friendly and easy to get along with, no drugs or drink in my life, nothing but music and records and drums! I've been TOLD I'm very good looking but, seeing as how I haven't been able to get a real girlfriend, who knows if THAT'S true or just words to make me feel good? I'd be thrilled just to have someone come over to have a chin wag or just play cards for a few hours!! Even better if they can talk records with me!! My aunt died just over 2 years ago and I've been alone ever since!! My only "companion" is a wild bunny that begs a slice of bread from me every day!
I could fall down the stairs here and die and nobody would even know about it for a month, unless mail girl noticed the mail piling up outside.
Your question breaks my heart because I can empathize with you. At the same time, to a certain extent, I wish I was in your situation; I think I'd have been happier.
As for your attractiveness, yes, you are fine ESPECIALLY at 45.
I think part of your problem is meeting people.
So, tell us more about your life - where you live, what you do, what are your hobbies and interests, etc. If you feel uncomfortable discussing this in the open, you are welcome to PM me.
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I feel like people that feel this way need to start seeking new things in their life and actually start doing things that they enjoy - and not just scooting through life doing the same routine.
Yes, I do. However, I’m a naturally optimistic person. I’m hoping to meet a nice man one day to settle down with. Anyway, my advice would be to stay “open.” Don’t close yourself off. 😊
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it happens and there's nothing wrong with you, you are chillin, it happens, loneliness can lead to lonely vibes but you shoulsnt let that effect your thoughts on your future cause the truth is that loneliness dont know your future, your loneliness is stuck on the same boat as you, in the present and it happens, dont lose the hope just cause you feel like you'll be alone forever cause the truth is that how you feel doesn't make reality and if you wanna help yourself, interact a bit more, no one says you can't start conversations with people right, do that and see where it goes, dont let loneliness speak for you cause that loneliness dont know 😆
I have to say, probably nothing is wrong with you. Today's society is a different society than prior to COVID, and even before that. Easy to get down on yourself these days because of our society and the conditions we live in. I would try to become involved in some social groups, go to a church and meet people there, if you are in a mood to do that. Don't isolate yourself, and that is easy to say, I know.
Chin up, you are not alone.
The Wall remains undefeated. You can still find a man, but you WILL have to settle a lot, because he would also be settling for you. So forget high-value or 6'+ as you no longer qualify. Average man is 5'9" $40K per year so start there. Also, he will be significantly older than you so make peace with that right now.
Everyone usually does. Unless you happen to be in a hospice or hospital bed and your wife or hubby of 50 years hasn’t left or fallen asleep.
But that’s kinda rare. Usually we have heart attacks and are alone, even when married.
All the time, especially since my long distance girlfriend of 3 years is now refusing to talk to me😞
We all die alone. If you mean still single when I die, yeah, I expect that will be the case. Not looking good on that front.
You are beautiful woman, i can't believe that you haven't been married and u are single. :)
why don’t u ask a guy out then?
It's ok you will find someone
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