Is it a red flag for you that your date has attacked their ex with a hammer in the past?

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justlookin69 · Accepted Answer

If I have an ex that did something like that, then there’s a good reason she’s my ex. It should be explained clearly, that attacking me with any object or permitting damage to any of my belongings and/or property will result in all equality forfeited no matter who you are.

IF you (or they) feel it’s okay to do something like that, then you (or they) should be okay with the consequences of their actions in any form and/or defense received. No longer will gender be considered or your (or their) feelings, only vengeance.

As much as I’d like this to be professional advice, it’s not. Just some fucked up advice that’s meant with the purest intentions. 😬

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

Did the bastard have it coming? lol. If he had it coming, no. I guess it would depend. If it was a girl who snapped for no reason, no, I probably wouldn't, but if her ex did something to bring it on, then yeah, I would probably still date her. I think crimes of passion are the most justifiable.

I almost married a cheater, and on my wedding day, she ran off with some guy from Indiana, and I can honestly say, I felt like doing the same thing, lol, well, that, and frustrated, sorrowful, empty, humiliated, unloved, angry, hopeless, worthless, and about 50 other emotions! People have no idea how much they hurt others.

ShesRad80 · Accepted Answer

unless he was trying to build her a house (sarcasm), f**k yes.

whereismyjohnny · Accepted Answer

Yup. That’s a sign to run for the exit 🏃🏻‍♀️🚩

AviatorTom · Answer

Bright red flag... maybe neon iridescent. Stay away from that date.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It all depends on what kind of hammer it was. Was it a Sledge Hammer, Claw Hammer, Straight Peen Hammer, Cross Peen Hammer, Ball Peen Hammer or Toy Hammer.

JesseP1nk · Answer

I think its self explanatory. Same way if a guy has murdered their ex or beat them or chase them with a chainsaw. Yeah i think its a red flag.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Are you smoking spice? I mean unless it was self-defense, yeah, yeah that'd be a red flag. Especially if he didn't kill her, because then he's homicidal AND incompetent.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, hammer attacks are serious. It will only be a matter of time before he owes the old ball peen hammer on you. Or maybe it will be a 20 ounce claw hammer.

richardcory · Answer

Unless it was clearly self defense, then violent felonies are pretty red-flag in my book

Bricealan · Answer

No, I would just keep my tool all locked up! LOLOL

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, sadly it would bother me, I could be the next victim.

DarkLegacy · Answer

That is bright red flags straight up with sirens to and flashing red lights to go with them.

SnowedIn · Answer

You're trolling, right?

socially_confused · Answer

YES!! HOLY CRAP YOU NEED TO RUN!!!

inhua · Answer

find out why before jumping to conclusions

musicbrain5 · Answer

Uhhh, yes. Huge red flag.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

Yes huge red flag..

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Um, how is this a question?

Anonymous · Answer

A little bit.

spartan55 · Answer

Whatever troll.

SeanMarkert · Answer

Next question...

fonduegirl · Answer

How can it be not

RealMarek · Answer

Umm… yes.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Girl.. 💀💀💀

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