Brave enough for a dominatrix?

[Anonymous]

Dates say they want a dominatrix until they come over then they just run off.

Women are way more brave and love me so much more! Maybe time to give up on men.

Guy Yes

Boy No

Woman yes Queen

Woman no

A total of 22 votes were cast: 7 girls and 15 guys. See detailed results

[nolabels]

I'm in.

For a predetermined period of time, let's say 24 hours.

Afterwards, we can confer and set a future course for our "relationship".

I'll say that I would not be a 24/7/365'er, but I will provide whatever Mistress demands of me in the moment, when I am at Mistress's disposal.

I must be humiliated by Mistress to the point of my utter anguish if Mistress's needs are not met.

Of course, if that is to your liking, Mistress...

[Asker]

Sounds fun

[nolabels]

Yeah, it does, doesn't it?

Where would you like to begin?

A dick leash, perhaps? Chastity hardware and a dick leash?
I'm wet just thinking about the possibilities.

Might I beg Mistress to submit my unworthy sub-nips to heavy duty nipple clamps, knowing that Mistress and only Mistress may relieve me from their sweet torture, as Mistress's will dictates?

Forgive me, Mistress, I forget my place.
I must not give voice to my desires.
It is only if Mistress wishes me to experience the sweet, sweet pain of prolonged nipple torture that I shall bask in the waves of ecstasy that nipple clamps would produce within my body.
Please forgive me once more, Mistress.
The body that I inhabit is not mine.
This body is the property of Mistress.
Mistress will do with this body what Mistress will.

I can only wonder at what Mistress may have in mind for my subservience to Mistress's desires.

I?

Who is I?

There is only Mistress and Mistress's wants and needs.

[Asker]

Lol true though a boring leash is to good for you! Lead you around the house and leave you on the bed while I shower!

[Lionman95]

Maybe since I never actually met a dominatrix. I just think a problem is that many guys dream about sex so when it doesn´t seem to go the way they want they leave.

I think some submissive guys are actually not interested in living out what they say they dream about and just want to have some fantasies.

[Asker]

Sounds like most sissy's! And trans just fantasy

[Lionman95]

Yes I think that´s the problem you face. Many guys don´t actually want to live out what they fantasize about especially if other people could get to know about it. So they live the first chance they get.

[OlderAndWiser]

My avoidance of a dominatrix is not caused by cowardice. Can you imagine ANY other reason why a guy might not want what you offer?

[Asker]

Then why try and date! Not asking about randoms

[OlderAndWiser]

Every guy who wants sex does not want a dominatrix. In fact, I suspect those guys are a very small minority. For most of us, we're not scared, but it just doesn't turn us on.

[Asker]

So losers who wanted sex and play along?

[OlderAndWiser]

That’s your attitude?

[Asker]

Every guy not answering the question!
Just random commen ignoring it!

[OlderAndWiser]

Everything that people do is not done because they are thinking of you. . . really!

[MasseurDeMojo]

I have never been with a Dominatrix. I have talked to some women who used to be Dominatrix, and have made a few good friends. I did not bring it up, I just talk to them as a friend. They brought it up as to let me know of that part of their past that they gave up for their own personal reasons. The ones that still do it are happy, and they still use me as a sounding board.

The problem with most men, is they have no idea of all that is involved in being with a Dominatrix; they have not done their research and ask the right questions. Those who are legitimate are very open and honest as to how play will proceed. They are also clear about the after care that will happen. What they need to do is just find a woman they like, get to know them for who they are as a person. During that time, you may find that they want to be the one in charge in the bedroom; so you talk it over and set up the rules and boundaries.

Not all Dominatrix are the same. It is something that the woman has to learn from someone who is already in the lifestyle and knows how to correctly proceed. If you want to date a Dominatrix because you think it will be fun, be warned; they are not for going back after you have said you are committed; this is why you always discuss what will happen and what boundaries you want to set far in advance.

They are about having sexual fun, but having it safely!! Communication is key!! Most of these men that want to date a Dominatrix, are lacking in communicating, and miss the queues she puts out to let them know what will happen. When the play starts, they are overwhelmed and decide to leave this relationship immediately! They do not prepare themselves mentally or physically for what will happen in this type of relationship. Again, communication is key!!!

[Anonymous]

I love dominant women
But this dominance and submission must start and end inside bedroom

When it comes to other areas of life there starts problems

[Asker]

True can mess it up

[slatyb]

Depends on what you are into. Female tops are thin on the ground.

[Asker]

Thin?

[slatyb]

Rare enough that skillful pro dommes can charge high rates.

[Anonymous]

Not my cup of tea, I’m brave enough though not my kink. I’d love to talk to a dominatrix to get punishment ideas from / learn how they handle their men just out of curiosity ig.

[abc3643]

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[Anonymous]

It just wouldn’t do anything to me. Allowing a woman to think she has any power over me is just too disingenuous it would feel cringe. Can’t fake a fetish, I suppose.

[Asker]

Not asking about you but why guys try and date say they like it then ghost

[Opinion Owner]

Not sure. I find a lot of people just aren’t capable of being direct with someone anymore. Technology allows them to say whatever they need to at the moment to sound agreeable and then they can disappear.

[Asker]

So true

[Anonymous]

Not sure as long no painful issues

[Asker]

Not usually and really I don't often like to do pain
All the guys want it but like why? I like to be over them not best them!
One date wanted a skewer through his balls