If a crush lasts more than a year, is it something more?

[Anonymous]

[RoseySarah]

No a crush can go on when ever you see the person. It can be years or decades and you see them the crush comes back!

[Asker]

Does it mean anything?

[RoseySarah]

No it is a crush not a relationship

[Ms_Facesitter]

Maybe. It's a waste of time, instead of crushing for a year you could have asked him out to see if it actually could have been more.

[Asker]

I am the crush. He is the one who didn't ask me out.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Do you like him?

[Asker]

Yes, but we work together so I can’t do anything about it

[Ms_Facesitter]

Then he's a crush.

[boggboss]

Yes a crush u have done nothing about

[Asker]

He has indeed done nothing about it.

[boggboss]

But he is your crush why would he do anything

[Asker]

he’s crushing on me. I return the feelings but I am not the one with stronger feelings, it’s him

[boggboss]

Then clearly he is too shy to approach u even with having a crush

[Asker]

it’s a sad situation

[boggboss]

How so

[Asker]

he should tell me. instead he only says random things like he likes my coat or he likes my dress.

[boggboss]

Why don't u tell him

[Asker]

i might

[In_Trance]

Not if you don't do anything with it