If a crush lasts a long time, say more than a year, is more than a crush?

[coral269]

Do I just like him or do I REALLY like him.

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And I haven't seen or talked to this guy in almost a year.

[dunc17]

I had a crush on a guy from high school almost all the way through school! ha ha 10th through 12th! Of course nothing ever happened but I kick myself because I think he did like me but I never flirted back :/ So who knows but I think it was more than a crush but never mounted to anything since nothing ever happened. We went to seperate schools after high school so if it's fate, we'll meet again but I doubt it ha ha he's happily taken and they've been dating for idk, 3 or 4 yrs!

So who knows...if the guy ever seems to be flirty with you though, do something about it! Or you'll be like me and live with regrets! haha

[hockeyrulesforever]

I've had a crush on the same guy since grade 9. Next month I'm entering second year of university!

[coral269]

I know what you mean I liked this guy from grade 9 to 12. But both fortunately and unfortunately I met a guy right away in college and he is... I must say, in my eyes, perfect... makes me forget about the other guy like he never even existed. He's single but not really available.

[Jakenv21]

i've had a crush on a girl since I started college a year ago. haven't seen her since we school ended and I still think about her all the time. we really like these people

[coral269]

But what to do about it? He's a few years older, but he's compassionate, nice/kind, gentle, trustworthy, witty when he wants to be, kind of a shy guy... so I'm not sure if he's interested or not.

[Jakenv21]

I'm really shy to. just show that your interested and it will bring out if he is or not. when girls do that to me it makes it 100 times easier

[coral269]

Yeah someone always has to take the first step... but it doesn't help when both of you are extremely shy :) Thank you for your answer.