What would consider to be more alarming, someone your interested in, who has three kids, with three different people, or someone that hasn't dated?

[Anonymous]

It can be, because of your age, or just in general, in your opinion

Three kids with Three different people

Never having dated

Neither

[Anonymous]

really depends on age because if you're like 25 with 3 kids from 3 different people that'd be really questionable but if you're 25 and have never dated that's not too bad, tbf having 3 different parents for your kids is kinda questionable no matter the age

[XXblack88]

A person with 3 kids and 3 baby mamas would be more alarming for me. If things didn't work out between us, I wouldn't want to be another baby mama. Someone who's never dated isn't a red flag for me.

[fonduegirl]

First one obviously.

Second sounds compatitively normal.

[Anonymous]

Three kids with three different people.