Why men don't like serious relationships?

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CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

Ofc we do. But the time and circumstance changes everything.
It also matter how the woman conducts herself, ofc. If he is mature and don't see a teamplayer, chances are he sees you as a steppingstone or maybe he just isn't sure about you and can't or won't make a judgement.

Many men aren't 'ready' to settle (aka the goal of relationships) until around 30 when they are stable and have played the field to satisfaction and have gained some wisdom.

Some men might be ready earlier or later but women don't or haven't seen that side to them, usually because they are low in self-esteem due to lacking support or no valudation what so ever.

BoopBoopBeep · Accepted Answer

I think most of us do, we're just not getting addressed with serious offers. People want to take and not give, if I'm doing all the heavy lifting then what do I need the other person for? If you have something to offer then I'll entertain that conversation gladly, but if you just want somebody to pay for your evenings/nights out and you aren't going to do anything in return then why would I settle down with only one woman?

DreamLife7 · Accepted Answer

This post generalizes men based on your negative experiences. If a men don't want to commit to you that means they don't like you

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

They do. They just only like it with a person they see as wife material.

kakaling · Answer

The truth is those that don't want a relationship at all, is not ready yet, they are more reliable to be honest.

Those that wants to experience and taste a relationship and not wanting to commit is wasting each other time, very irresponsible and unproductive.

Those that one wants a serious relationship is between those two, you need to judge their reliability yourself.

These applies to both male and female.

DextroShade · Answer

Selection bias, most men do want relationships but they are invisible to most women. You only see the players who you and most other women are attracted to and these guys obviously have no incentive to settle down. There are plenty of average men who will settle down with you, but your own delusional sense of entitlement won't let you see them and you will continue to be passed around by players until you hit the wall.

Erroin · Answer

We do. But men also consider that high risk low reward. If a guy gets married and has a kid with a woman he loses, period. The courts aren’t fair to us at all. Child support, custody, accusations all skew heavily in women’s favor. A typical custody battle ends in this. It’s not universal, but I fear the majority of men have lost all trust in women, and are struggling to see the upside to having a serious relationship or marriage

dudeinohio · Answer

Not entirely true. Some do, some don't. All depends on the guy. Younger guys though tend to want to be with many women before they settle down with serious relationships.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

A lot of that has to do with your age group. In general, dating is a ton of work for men, and the reward isn't all that much better than being single and playing the field, as it were.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

A lot of us do. Stop dating players and risk takers and guys who refer to themselves as "chads" or "alphas" or guys that do or say anything else thats stupid.

SnowedIn · Answer

Many do. Yes, there are some that don't, but many do.

DarkLegacy · Answer

It is because of modern women, men get no benefits, they have to just do what the woman wants.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some do, but in your age group it is less likely because guys can get what they want without the commitment.

Truthatanycost · Answer

What she really means is 'Why don't the hot attractive men that she wants, like serious relationships?'

worldscolide · Answer

We do unless we dont see the person as wife material.

peedy · Answer

I wouldn't say we don't like them we just have different outlook and ways of showing it than women do Pay. closer attention in thd future

SeekingSubmission · Answer

z MOST MEN DO LIKE SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS AND ARE LOOKING FOR EXACTLY THAT!

inhua · Answer

serious relationships only happen with serious partners

exitseven · Answer

I was not averse to having a serious relationship/ . I thought that just dating for the sake of dating was sort of a waste of time.

noohair · Answer

Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex. That was love and marriage. Women wanted freedom and equality. This is what freedom and equality looks like.

Agape93 · Answer

Most do, they just want it with a serious partner

ButthurtGAGpeople1 · Answer

We don't like them, young. Because who does? Like seriously, who wants to be strapped down, at 16, or even 20?

Anonymous · Answer

"Why can't they just settle for one woman"?  In the words of Bill Engvall, "Here's your sign".😆

LazerBean · Answer

I'd say most probably do like them.

MementoMori777 · Answer

i dont recall ever saying that

boggboss · Answer

They do

Anonymous · Answer

Women are too much drama. Not worth it.

Anonymous · Answer

Women stopped being worth it.

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