How can I get a boyfriend that wants a serious relationship?

[Anonymous]

I’ll be 26 and it’s extremely hard get a boyfriend. I never had a guy shop with me at the market or do errands together , drive me to work daily, live with me, take pics with me, meet my parents nothing.
On dating apps men just want sex and i only in my life found one guy that wanted a girlfriend but he lived 14 hours away by airplane. I broke up with the one boyfriend I had in my life cuz he don’t live with me nor meet family. All we did was dates that’s it.
there’s a lot of guys at my job but I don’t have 100 guy friends drooling over me pursing me no.
I just don’t understand y all girls have a partner and no one exists for me.
do I need find a younger guy in order to get a boyfriend? Cuz I’ll be 26 and only young guys are not experienced so they crave desire a girlfriend and doing serious things as normal couple. Like age 22-24?

[RespectfulGuy]

Guys who have a career and some savings are more likely to want to settle down.

And since you're 26, you should look for guys from 27 onward.

If he has a career, then by knowing his paper qualification, you can estimate his monthly salary.

And by knowing him better as a person, you can determine how much he has in his savings.

And if he has enough to pay for the down-payment of a house, then likely he's ready to settle down.

Attempt to know him better and then decide to get more intimate with him or not.

Otherwise, if he's still struggling with career or savings, then he's likely not ready to settle down. You may decide to break off or not.

No, I'm not saying you have to be a gold digger. Rather, knowing his material standing tells a lot about him as a person.

And this info can save you a lot of heartache because when a man saves up, he likely do so to build a family.

[WilmaReportu]

Please be respectful of everyone’s boundaries and personal space and refrain from discussing such topics in public.

I will not stand by and allow you to degrade women.

If you continue to make such remarks I will have no choice but to report you as it is entirely unacceptable behaviour. This is a warning. You should stop immediately or else face the consequences of your actions.

Thank you for understanding.

[Asker]

My ex boyfriend was 31 and don’t want do anything all bfs do like live togethr baby meet family nothing. So it’s not true I don’t encounter older men liking me no.

[RespectfulGuy]

@WilmaReportu Seriously, report me already. I can't wait to see how GaG respond. And please, don't warn again. I find it wasting of time to respond to you.

[RespectfulGuy]

Sorry to hear that. I sincerely hope that you got better chance next time.

[boggboss]

No finding a younger guy won't make him serious lol all u have to do is keep looking and stop being dramatic many people that want partners still have not found what they want

[Asker]

Older men already have experience in relationships so they won’t want a girlfriend. And a younger guy will want a boyfriend and meet parents and all that serious stuff

[boggboss]

No they won't thats not how it works guys that are younger are not looking to settle down so they won't look to do that stuff

[Asker]

Well my last boyfriend was like 31 n he was like a man child so I don’t belive that.

[Asker]

I will most likely have a boyfriend same age as me or younger

[boggboss]

Lol if this is how u think I can see why you are single I am a aman I associate with other men I know for a fact men that are older tend to want to settle down more then younger men

[Asker]

It’s not what I think. I do not encounter older men that want settle down. My ex boyfriend was older 31 and he don’t want settle down he act like he’s 21

[boggboss]

OK so look for other men 1 man don't set the standerd

[noohair]

Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex.
That was love and marriage.
Women wanted freedom and equality.
This is what freedom and equality looks like.

[Asker]

But I see all women with guy and baby and guys next to her like glue daily 24/7 I don’t understand how all these woman get men obsessed with her and I’m alone? No guy wants be next to me like glue

[noohair]

I have no answer for why you are alone. Maybe you need to develop some confidence. All the best.

[PeteA380]

Which ethnicity are you?
Serious boyfriend means marriage/pregnancy material, so you need to approach such guys (ready bachelors, not momma's or pappa's sunny boys nor divorcees etc)

[Asker]

But I see many gfs living with boyfriend and meeting parents it’s soemthing all normal bfs do. U don’t meet parents Til u get married. Many meet parents then break up it’s normal. U can’t have a boyfriend and never meet his family the point of a boyfriend is meet family

[Anonymous]

The same way a guy gets a woman that truly wants to love and commit to him. But just like you guys do not want to make that concession. So good luck. Keep doing what you are maybe you get lucky at some point.

[DextroShade]

You are either fat or you are overlooking 90% of men.

[Anonymous]

What dating apps do you use?

[AɴᴋᴀʀᴀBᴇʏᴇғᴇɴᴅɪꜱɪ]

I think it's obvious that he's sincere.