Why is it ok for men calling women built like a wall but not for women to prefer tall men?

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It's stupid. And uneducated in my opinion to bodyshame someone.

Chill_Thoughts · Accepted Answer

Of course it's not ok and it's fine to have preferences. What you said is not really comparable tho.
It's not ok to:
- calling women saying they are built like a wall
- calling men saying they are built like a dwarf

It's ok to:
- prefer curvier women
- prefer taller man

in my opinion ofc

pethouse · Accepted Answer

I have only one time heard someone say to a girl that she was built like a wall and that was by another girl sooo

Spongebobssocks · Accepted Answer

Women wanting tall men is biology. We want to feel protected. Men wanting women with curves is also human nature (not fat). All of it is okay. It is preferences. If anyone is angry at science then that's not anyone's issue but their own👀😅

Karen444 · Accepted Answer

A wall? I never heard that one. More like a brick house.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Eh?

Society shames men for having standards and creates fucking media campaigns telling them how fat, hairy landwhales are healthy and how 'real men' likes curves, despite not even being able to define what a man is.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Built like a wall?😂 I've literally never heard a guy use that term.  Most guys i think don't even care about a woman's height. This is primarily and almost exclusively a woman hangup.

Philyouup · Answer

well first saying all men prefer tall women is false. Secondly i hear women say men are shallow but won’t even consider a shorter man. he could be perfect except for the hight, and she’s like “ he is too short”. that i believe is the definition of shallow.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Must be greek culture cuz here we dont, never ever have I heard someone say built like a wall

LogicBomber · Answer

I think you have it backwards.
Women shame and attack men for not wanting fat women. They create media campaigns and try to force men to change their biology to accept obese as “beautiful”.

Women who want tall men are only called out when they are being ignorant and shallow.

ButthurtGAGpeople1 · Answer

It's never ok to prefer something just because society says so USE YOUR OWN MIND

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Men DON'T call for that. Do you have any idea how few people there would be on this planet, if men actually demanded that from women?

inhua · Answer

nobody stops women from preferring tall men or having preferences in general. men are the ones who get shamed for having preferences

B4851 · Answer

Haven't heard the built like a wall expression. However it's perfectly fine for women to like tall men.

AmeerX · Answer

What does being built like a wall even mean?

Sparkie460 · Answer

Nobody should be body shamed. It doesn't matter what they look like

Christoff92 · Answer

This is something never heard of that women are built like a wall. That's definitely body shaming.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Because weight unlike height can be controlled

BLP11520 · Answer

I don’t body shame anyone, there is such variety and no perfect body shape

exitseven · Answer

I never said a woman looked like a wall

AydenHazor · Answer

I agree that it's stupid to body shame anyone

CubaPirate · Answer

That's called hypocrisy my dear

Wise4myage · Answer

Its never ok my friend.

EaterPeter · Answer

It's not ok

Why is it ok for men calling women built like a wall but not for women to prefer tall men?

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