Guys, will you try other girls if your girlfriend or wife allows?

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hahahmm · Accepted Answer

Wife and girlfriend are very different things. There is no commitment with a girlfriend even if it seems like it. It's not written in stone. Sure, that's true in marriages with people who don't value the marriage also but that's why it's smart to be very. very careful who you marry.

Anyhow: Women are like undercover agents. The only reason she is 'allowing' it is to test and see if you think the relationship is less serious than you said it was. And if that's the case it gives her a green light to get with other dudes too.

By the way, if a guy wanted to get with other women he could do that whether his wife/girlfriend "allows" it or not. Some people are cheaters. Some aren't.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Maybe... it depends on the circumstances.

For example, if my SO asked me to have sex with her best friend who lost her husband 6 months ago and is badly in need of "male company", I might consider it.

In any other circumstance, though, it would have to be more than being "allowed", she would have to suggest it, and even then I might not.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would prefer my husband to be loyal to me but if he is honest with me and wants experience on a special occasion then I'd allow it. But I would never ever do it myself

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

Of course, they will.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If my girlfriend encouraged me to have sex with another girl, first I would be suspicious of whether she was testing me and then I would be disappointed. I am faithful but not because I don't my fiancée's permission!

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Maybe. It depends greatly on if she's someone I'd be interested in or I could fall in love with her. One night, my fiance's best friend decided to stay with us for a while and she ended up in our bed with us. Madame Ex told me to offer to fuck her. I offered the friend the chance to fuck me and she declined. I don't even know if I COULD fuck her because I'm not at all into her!
A few years later, she tried to set me up with some cute French girl, Ann. Her, I could've gotten into and, besides, Madame Ex stopped fucking me at least 4 years before and she was already cheating on me!! So, me fucking Ann COULD'VE happened except that she was going back to France in a day or three so, there was no point in my getting involved with her and Madame Ex started telling me that I SHOULD NOT get involved with her but, she wouldn't tell me why! Apparently, she discovered that there was something awry about Ann.

Losalt · Answer

Well...
I'm poly, I can and have loved multiple people at the same time.
And I'm also sexually attracted to multiple people at the same time.

Regarding what I'd *do* it would depend on how how she's actually *feeling*.
If she's just doing it to please me but still don't feel safe enough to feel comfortable with it I'd like to wait till she'd feel better about it before doing anything.
But yes, I'd definitely want to explore other women eventually.

genericname85 · Answer

no. because being faithfull to my partner is not just for my partner. it's for me as well. sure i have the desire for other pussy but for me personally, i feel more valuable as a person, if i can control my urge to do that and devote all my love to one person.

Nik1hil · Answer

Depends on situation,  Most probably not, if I made her my girlfriend or wife, that directly means I am not interested in touching other women!..

JackCarter · Answer

Hell no... The guy is a Douchebag if he does such a terrible thing.

MementoMori777 · Answer

No, my loyalty belongs to her, I don't care if she allows it

Berethor · Answer

I might take extra girlfriend, casual sex is not my thing.

EvenFlow · Answer

I spent over 6 years in a relationship.
It literally just ended 3 days ago. Around September of last year Was the very first time she ever mentioned? Or showed any interest and sharing me with one of her friends.

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s like asking for a license to cheat and what goes around comes around and I would never do that in the first place I would feel so guilty. I couldn’t even sleep at night.

PointTaken · Answer

I would say probably not. I really wouldn't think k I would. I can't tell the future yet I don't have a girlfriend right now. Extremely high no so far.

slatyb · Answer

Possibly, although there's no one I know currently that would be willing.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

If I'm overall happy with my g/f (or theoretical wife), then I'd see no reason to do so.

jammcm · Answer

No, not my thing. I flirt but it ends there.

Anonymous · Answer

F*** no! Besides, even if I wa Ted to that's clearly a trap.😆

justabuddy · Answer

Yeah, probably not. Thats like trying poison because someone says you can.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Only girls that she picks out

najekim · Answer

We're in the LIfestyle so we both do.

driven159 · Answer

No it is still cheating

EaterPeter · Answer

If I like my woman a lot in certain ways, no?

krin_m · Answer

I'm polyamorous, so yes.

OddBeMe · Answer

Come on over between 3:30 and 3:45.

exitseven · Answer

nope.

BlackJeep · Answer

Hell no.

Sharkstealth · Answer

Of course!

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, and she can try other guys too 🙂

Erron_Black · Answer

never

Rohaan2020 · Answer

Yes ofcourse

Anonymous · Answer

Depends on situation,

Christopher_Wills · Answer

NO Mam, NO

eagle1951 · Answer

yeah

Anonymous · Answer

Of course

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