Would you be open to a relationship with a man who meets traditional standards of masculinity (having high social status, fit, assertive) but treats you like a princess, kisses your hands or feet, focuses on your pleasure during sex, considers your happiness a priority, and almost worships you as his Goddess or muse, a sort of knight serving his queen. He protects you and provides for you, but is really somewhat submissive to you, not in the sense of being weak and ill-willed, but in the sense of wanting to please you, even at his own detriment.
For me, such a man lacks character and personality.
He is the kind of person that lowers himself to become a modern day slave and that will go to great lengths to satisfy his girlfriend/wife/SO.
No, this is not the type of person that I would want to be in a relationship with. Many women would misuse their "power" over that kind of man and it would very quickly become a toxic relationship because on the long run, he would realize that his kindness is being misused. Furthermore, the worshiping issue is a real problem in any relationship.
Nobody should be worshipped as it is a sign of submission and in a relationship, equality is what makes the relationship work and not submission.
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That’s how my boyfriend is and I’m loving every bit of it! He treats me like his queen but I also treat him like the king that he is (as corny as this sounds like lol). I wouldn’t say that he’s submissive though, he’s just very patient and understanding. He’s still very principled and maintains his boundaries/self respect, I will also never take his “submissiveness” or generosity for granted. I do prefer traditional men anyway since I also prefer the traditional values of being a woman.
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Ah, the classic tale of a knight in shining armor, but with a modern twist! Let's dive into this romantic fantasy. You're talking about a partner who ticks off the boxes for being the epitome of masculinity, yet swoops in with a devotion that's out of this world. It's like having your cake and eating it too, right? Imagine someone who not only sweeps you off your feet with their physical presence and social prowess but also deeply respects and prioritizes your happiness. Sounds dreamy!
However, here’s the spicy part: the idea of being worshipped and having someone willing to go to lengths, even at their own expense, to please you. It borders on lovebombing but has a chivalrous flair. This could be incredibly appealing to some, feeling like a queen in their own right, with every wish being their partner’s command.
But, let's not forget, in every fairy tale, there's a lesson. The key here is balance. It's intoxicating to be adored, but mutual respect and understanding are what fuel a lasting flame. Would you embrace the role of a goddess, knowing your knight sees his dedication as his strength, not his weakness? Communication, as always, is your magic wand in navigating this kingdom of love. ✨💖
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I think most women wouldn't respect such a guy
if i was gal, i prefer that, him.
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