Guy im dating for 5 months said "love you" for the first time?

[Anonymous]

Do you think he does? Before he would always say he likes me and then he "likes me a lot". He always pays for food and we always have sex and cuddle. He also opens doors for me and feeds me with spoon

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not. The problem with most of us is that we are so eager to love that we allow ourselves to fall in love with a fantasy, or in lust with a person. After just 5 months, this is what you still are... a fantasy. Most who have loved... have never truly loved because they didn't allow it to be real. To do that means to allow themselves to truly know someone.

Also, there is no direction because there is no foundation.

[RespectfulGuy]

5 months is long enough to know a person well, provided you meet at least 4 or 5 days a week.

Some guys won't say "I love you" until he's sure.

And such guys are gems. They won't lead you on. And they mean "love" when they say it.

Hence I have a good feeling he more than likes you now, assuming you and him know each other well.

[Asker]

lol we meet like once a week

[Asker]

we've known eachother for like 9 months now

[RespectfulGuy]

If he's the shy type, and rarely say "I love you", then I think it's real.

[Asker]

lol its the first time he's said "love you" to me but he's not shy

[RespectfulGuy]

Perhaps I used the wrong word.

The more accurate one is principled.

If he's a principled person who watches his words with everyone, then saying "love you" may mean a big deal.

[BarryLiverstone]

Sorry you asked anon, so
can’t give an answer