Is that the reason they give or are you drawing that conclusion? If the former, I'd say pick better guys ;)
Would you really want to be with a guy like that anyway?
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Anonymous
(36-45)
10 mo
It’s not racist if you don’t find someone else attractive. But it is racist if you do find them attractive but assume a bunch of negative stereotypes hence reject them for that reason.
Most white guys aren’t going to flat out say they just don’t find black women attractive nowadays. Even if they aren’t racist at all they are scared of looking racist if they said that. Our insane “modern” culture doesn’t let them be honest.
My first two wives were black. I broke up with a black girlfriend to marry my second wife.
I was willing. Culture wasn’t the issue. It was individual responsibility (read that: the lack thereof) that destroyed my marriages. I initiated divorce on my ex’s.
Race doesn't matter, just have a big, loving, compassionate heart and good intentions and deeds in mind, those who aren't dating you just for your race are actually doing you a favor by showing you who they really are in the beginning so you don't have to waste your precious time to find out.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
9 mo
Girl, you look gorgeous! We can’t control who we are attracted to, I don’t think all these guys rejected you because of your ethnicity. Maybe you’re really shy? Or just not their type? Attraction depends on a lot of factors, not just your race. And drop that skincare routine, because your skin is glowing!!❤️
hell no. listen, i'm not sayin you or me are not denied of... a good man. But some black women are black bitches (white included) but ya know us black folks, we can get crazy.
I'm well aware that some Black women are capable of being very mean, cruel and demanding, but that's why I love serving them, because they know how to dominate that ass.
I don't mind dating a black woman if she's a good lady, what's the difference between a white and a black woman? They are the same to me... Her color won't make me happy, it's what she have inside that makes me happy and comfortable
Yes I would be open to dating a black woman. I am man of faith and and being a believer would be the first thing I would be looking for in a woman. It difficult finding a woman you are attracted to, respect and have similar beliefs with. You can't let color get in the way.
I'm not generally attracted to black women. Just not my type. But every once in a while, I'll see one I think is attractive. I'm also not attracted to Asian women. Latinas are my type.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
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im white and i lost my virginity to a man that is 98% African, dark skin so yes... but am waiting for marrige now... i have 1 bodycount i regret deeply but not because he was black lol.. because of my religion:)
I’m half white half Mexican. But I look more white then anything 😭. But yeah I would personally some black girls be rlly hot🤷♂️. And also how do you know they are rejecting you because you’re black? It could be just they aren’t interested in you and nothing to do with race. Although I don’t see many black girl white guy couples.
I've been trying to get black women to notice me for years. One of the few that ever did though, turned out to be a closet bi drug addict. Seems I just can't win.
I've dated/served Black women almost exclusively for many years, because they're often more demanding and more likely to be comfortable beating my bare bottom until I'm in tears.
Not to be mean or a racist, but as a white man, I’m not interested in interracial dating. I’m only interested in dating white women because that’s all I’m attracted to.
? I think she’s absolutely gorgeous. She’s most definitely in the top bracket of dark skinned ladies. She could model. I love all people all guys and all women are pretty, but I have also seen a fair share of women from your race who could’ve used a little more self tlc on appearance especially as they aged and let themselves go… so for you to have been surrounded by that (by very high chance) and to understand as well that all women are beautiful- I don’t know what made you say that “sir.”
Why is she not THAT beautiful?
Because if you ask me she has completely bursted the charts.
I’ll remind her if I have to because she doesn’t deserve to believe a lie like this spewed from anybody of any race or any gender-
Not if it’s UNTRUE.
Beauty is subjective, but it’s also vast.
Guys usually tend to think girls are mostly fuckable or not- you know she’s fuckable so I don’t know, again, why you’d say such a comment.
@Rosexøxø Well for starters she has a broad flat nose and a broad jaw. Your average Japanese boyband singer has a more feminine and symmetrical look.
And model? Well standards for models are no longer what they used to be but I could easily find prettier gals from work, grocery stores or the street. Then again I'm currently residing in a Nordic country.
"She’s most definitely in the top bracket of dark skinned ladies."
Did you just call the majority of dark skinned women ugly?
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Is that the reason they give or are you drawing that conclusion? If the former, I'd say pick better guys ;)
Would you really want to be with a guy like that anyway?
It’s not racist if you don’t find someone else attractive. But it is racist if you do find them attractive but assume a bunch of negative stereotypes hence reject them for that reason.
Most white guys aren’t going to flat out say they just don’t find black women attractive nowadays. Even if they aren’t racist at all they are scared of looking racist if they said that. Our insane “modern” culture doesn’t let them be honest.
My first two wives were black. I broke up with a black girlfriend to marry my second wife.
I was willing. Culture wasn’t the issue. It was individual responsibility (read that: the lack thereof) that destroyed my marriages. I initiated divorce on my ex’s.
Race doesn't matter, just have a big, loving, compassionate heart and good intentions and deeds in mind, those who aren't dating you just for your race are actually doing you a favor by showing you who they really are in the beginning so you don't have to waste your precious time to find out.
Girl, you look gorgeous! We can’t control who we are attracted to, I don’t think all these guys rejected you because of your ethnicity. Maybe you’re really shy? Or just not their type? Attraction depends on a lot of factors, not just your race. And drop that skincare routine, because your skin is glowing!!❤️
I’m currently engaged to a black woman. Don’t be discouraged because a few white hits have turned you down. We are out there!
hell no. listen, i'm not sayin you or me are not denied of... a good man. But some black women are black bitches (white included) but ya know us black folks, we can get crazy.
I'm well aware that some Black women are capable of being very mean, cruel and demanding, but that's why I love serving them, because they know how to dominate that ass.
I don't mind dating a black woman if she's a good lady, what's the difference between a white and a black woman? They are the same to me...
Her color won't make me happy, it's what she have inside that makes me happy and comfortable
Yes I would be open to dating a black woman. I am man of faith and and being a believer would be the first thing I would be looking for in a woman. It difficult finding a woman you are attracted to, respect and have similar beliefs with. You can't let color get in the way.
I'm not generally attracted to black women. Just not my type. But every once in a while, I'll see one I think is attractive. I'm also not attracted to Asian women. Latinas are my type.
im white and i lost my virginity to a man that is 98% African, dark skin so yes... but am waiting for marrige now... i have 1 bodycount i regret deeply but not because he was black lol.. because of my religion:)
I’m half white half Mexican. But I look more white then anything 😭. But yeah I would personally some black girls be rlly hot🤷♂️. And also how do you know they are rejecting you because you’re black? It could be just they aren’t interested in you and nothing to do with race. Although I don’t see many black girl white guy couples.
I've been trying to get black women to notice me for years. One of the few that ever did though, turned out to be a closet bi drug addict. Seems I just can't win.
I've dated/served Black women almost exclusively for many years, because they're often more demanding and more likely to be comfortable beating my bare bottom until I'm in tears.
I've been trying to message you but I haven't been able to. I'd love to chat with you about this if you want.
Wait what? No way! I mean i always look at black girls in uk, but they are too Manly so i never seen a change of me even "dreaming" of being with one.
Not to be mean or a racist, but as a white man, I’m not interested in interracial dating. I’m only interested in dating white women because that’s all I’m attracted to.
I wouldn't have any problem. In fact, I like this type of genetic set-up.
But... I'd hesitate to make an own initial approach out of ''fear'' that it could be seen as ''objectifying''.
Its more the BET culture and toxic culture the African Women have that is more off putting more then anything.
Also AA women usually more selective as well. Asians and White are usually cross out. If he is short another cross out.
Open yes. Also did they specifically tell you that it was because you are black?
I mean let's be honest. Your profile picture suggests that your looks are not that appealing.
But there are also pretty black women.
? I think she’s absolutely gorgeous. She’s most definitely in the top bracket of dark skinned ladies. She could model. I love all people all guys and all women are pretty, but I have also seen a fair share of women from your race who could’ve used a little more self tlc on appearance especially as they aged and let themselves go… so for you to have been surrounded by that (by very high chance) and to understand as well that all women are beautiful- I don’t know what made you say that “sir.”
Why is she not THAT beautiful?
Because if you ask me she has completely bursted the charts.
I’ll remind her if I have to because she doesn’t deserve to believe a lie like this spewed from anybody of any race or any gender-
Not if it’s UNTRUE.
Beauty is subjective, but it’s also vast.
Guys usually tend to think girls are mostly fuckable or not- you know she’s fuckable so I don’t know, again, why you’d say such a comment.
I’m leaving it be but I had to remind her.
@Rosexøxø
Well for starters she has a broad flat nose and a broad jaw.
Your average Japanese boyband singer has a more feminine and symmetrical look.
And model? Well standards for models are no longer what they used to be but I could easily find prettier gals from work, grocery stores or the street.
Then again I'm currently residing in a Nordic country.
"She’s most definitely in the top bracket of dark skinned ladies."
Did you just call the majority of dark skinned women ugly?
Current mate is white have mixed kids.. everyone has a preference.. some prefer vanilla and some prefer chocolate.. just be mindful