Why do single moms think they deserve a chance?

[Anonymous]

Considering how nitpicky, judgmental, and demanding females are, surely men are allowed to pass on the baggage that comes with inheriting someone else's broken home

[Anonymous]

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[Alli39]

They think they deserve a chance because they do. End of story. Just because you're not mature, empathetic, or logical enough to see the reasons doesn't mean that they don't.

[DarkLegacy]

No they don't otherwise, skinny men without the jawline or men tat are not tall or men that are beta or men with Autism and learning difficulties deserve a chance too. They do not deserve a chance because they are usually single mums because they purposely go for wronguns or select men based upon wrong criteria and then try and settle with the opposite when everything goes south for them.

They do not deserve a chance

[Alli39]

@DarkLegacy I mean I believe that all the people you listed do deserve a chance though?

[DarkLegacy]

Well when women give these men a chance and not before they hit the wall then we will give them a chance, women change tack as soon as they hit the wall

[Apple1996]

They deserve a chance the same as everyone else. Having a kid isn't as bad of baggage as some men have.

[Avicenna]

Thank you for the laugh. The only worse baggage than having kids is huge debt and/or a criminal record.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna what's wrong with having a kid? They are literally just a tiny version of the mom. If a man doesn't like a woman's kids then he doesn't like the woman herself

[Avicenna]

Apple, you can't possibly be that naive. Do you not know any single moms at all?

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna I know lots of moms that were single moms then got married again. Like literally all of my friends irl have kids from previous relationships

[Avicenna]

Hate to say it, but that says more about who you're friends with than anything else.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna it says that they has shitty baby daddies the first time around lol. I meet lots of women in my workout group that are the same way. I'm one of the rare women that ended up with a good baby daddy and kept him around

[Avicenna]

Are these women all military spouses?

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna I think a few of them yes but it's a mix of all types of moms. Its a stroller workout group. If you know what that is

[Avicenna]

I don't, but I do have a few thoughts. Single moms who have controlled their weight and are in at decent shape have a much better chance of getting remarried.
Military guys seem to be a bit more prone to marrying single moms because they want to get out of the barracks and get more money for having dependents.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna yes its like a workout group for moms with babies in strollers so decently fit women.
And yeah for real my last 3 neighbors left their wife (that had no kids) then married a single mom. I swear I must have influenced them into liking mom's or something. Probably overhearing all the baby making through the thin walls 😆

[Avicenna]

That is not possible. I know you like cheerleading for single moms, but that's ridiculous.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna yeah more of a joke that I'm influencing them but it does keep happening. My husband said he's gonna warn the next neighbor about this like it's a curse 😂

[Avicenna]

I'm saying it's not possible for guys to be that dumb

[Avicenna]

To marry a single mom if they have no other options, sure I can see some dumbasses doing that, but leaving a wife you have no kids with to do that? No way.

[Avicenna]

Taking care of someone else's kids, especially if it means some financial support (which it usually does), is thankless and dumb.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna from what I seen with the past 2 the ex wife's were bi polar or something. Overheard lots of crazy fighting. The 1st neighbor his ex wife was fat so... The moms were all better options for them

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna it's not dumb if you love the woman. My dad married my mom even tho she had 5 kids from other relationships. And my dad likes my brothers more than me lol

[Avicenna]

It is dumb unless you have no other choice. And lots of these single moms are totally messed up.

Did you Dad have kids of his own prior to meeting your Mom?

[Avicenna]

It's better to stay away from the messed-up ones and stay single.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna yess but he didn't get custody of my sister till later on cuz of her being in a different country. He also thinks there might be more kids in some other places so who knows. My family is messy

[Avicenna]

OK, so he wasn't exactly a "clean" prospect himself.

My mom was a single mom too (two kids), but she knew she wasn't going to find someone suitable and didn't date until my sister was at university.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna yeah my parents just fell in love. They weren't seeking out to date anyone during that time.
Thats crazy your mama held off that long to date but I guess that's what worked for her

[Avicenna]

It did. And I think she did the right thing.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna I think now a days it's kind of different. Better off seeing your parents happy and in a healthy relationship then sad and single

[Avicenna]

Most people's idea of happiness isn't the thankless job of being a step-parent

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna a kid would only add more happiness into their life so seems like a huge red flag if someone wouldn't date because of that. Just shows they are selfish and not relationship material even if no kids are involved. Having that opinion says enough about them to be considered a red flag

[Avicenna]

That's utter nonsense. You know as well as anyone that stepchildren do not always "add happiness" and that taking care of kids is not easy.

And it's completely false to deem someone not relationship material for not being naive enough to be tricked into taking care of someone else's kids and helping a single mom out of a situation she may have created. Not wanting stepchildren or not wanting date a woman with kids doesn't mean someone isn't capable of being a good partner or a good parent. Knowing our limitations is also part of being a good partner and parent.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna kids always add happiness. If they dont think that it's probably just a bad perspective that the person holds about kids for whatever reason. (Probably needs therapy if they're like that)

And basically yeah about the limitations. These men that hate on single moms do so because they know they aren't good enough for them. They aren't good men, father figures, partners, probably have trauma. So instead of saying that they'll claim to dislike single moms for other reasons. Men do this in any situation where a woman is too good for them. They choose to hate instead of owning up to their own problems

[Avicenna]

Sure, like single moms are angels and too good for everyone. Now you're just trolling.
It's clearly the single moms who are trying to get some dupe to fix their problems.

But in the Apple Alternate Universe, these munificent single moms are generously giving these men who aren't good enough for them the benefit of paying the single moms' bills and taking care of someone else's kids out of the goodness of the single moms' own hearts.

But, hey, Apple says guys not dumb enough to suckered into taking care of a single mom and someone else's kids, they're bad guys who have psychological issues.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna sure the moms could have their own issues but that could be anyone but these men have issues cuz they aren't owning up to not being good enough men and choosing to bully instead.
It's not a good look to hate on women and childern in our society who are the most vulnerable out there. Either step up and help them or admit that y'all aren't good enough but to bully/say single moms as unattractive just because they have kids is just disgusting

[Avicenna]

How dare anyone criticize these goddesses known as single moms! They never do anything wrong. They never need any financial assistance at all.

I wish you'd make up your mind as to whether these superstar single moms are carrying the men in their lives who would otherwise be homeless and out on the street or are in desperate need of financial assistance? Which one is it?

You do know that there is plenty of help available for single moms, right? I pay for taxes for things like WIC, EITC, Section 8 housing, SNAP, etc. Why should I spend what I have left after supporting four children of my own on some other man's kids?

Like it or not, a woman with someone else's kids is unattractive to the vast majority of men. You don't want to admit that because you know that if you didn't have access to the military's social system, you could very well be in the same situation, or maybe worse.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna wanting to raise/helps others kids is in our DNA. It's why we use to have a village to support everyone. It's weird for a man to not like childern unless something is seriously wrong with him.

Also the military does not offer me that great of a life. I'm currently on some of those things you listed up above. Would be in a better financial situation if my husband got out and that's the truth.

[Avicenna]

You can like children and not want to raise someone else's.

I'm sorry to hear that the military is not taking care of your family like they should. I didn't have one when I was in and it was very easy for me to save half of my paycheck and still travel a lot, but I know that people with families usually have a very different experience.

[Avicenna]

I have always wanted my sons to join the US military when they finish high school, but I have been talking to people I know in the German Army to see if that might be a better option for them.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna not wanting to raise others childern means you don't like childern. It's either you like kids or you don't.

And yeah it's whatever he signed up for the military to live out his dreams not for the money part. Also before I was married they didn't allow me to get on any financial assistance even tho I didn't have a job and had a baby. The system is really flawed. Those that really need it don't get it.

[Apple1996]

@Avicenna I have no idea why people think service members make a lot of money like everyone is broke. My family is decent with our money so it's not a huge issue. We take any assistance that we qualify for cause that's what they tell us to do

[Avicenna]

Yeah, well, that suggests to me that BAS should be higher.

You're certainly entitled to your opinion, but few people would agree with your claim that people that don't want to raise someone else's kids do not like children. You can certainly like kids without taking on every kid in the world, which is the logical conclusion of what you're suggesting.

I don't want someone else raising my kids.

[Avicenna]

Like everyone else, they want the best they can get, but they don't want to accept that their baggage usually makes them undateable.

[Anonymous]

Because she doesn't understand or possibly doesn't care how unappealing a single mom is to a guy (this is probably why she's single in the first place). So a lot of single moms get mad when you tell them they're bad stock. Which again, when you think about it tells you a lot about her lack of quality. No guy worth his salt wants to invest in a women that doesn't INSTINCTIVELY know kids ALWAYS come first. A single mom that's gets angry that a man doesn't want her rather than says to herself, "well if that's your attitude you wouldn't have been good for us (her and her kid) anyways", only shows her priorities are out of whack.

[Nikki1989]

Oh, so much irony. Did you even read your post?

Obviously, you are the one with the baggage.

[DarkLegacy]

Fantastic question and great points made. My sentiments exactly, it is part of feminist culture, it is ok for women but not for men, and they think they should be forgiven for their mistakes and wrongdoings.

They won't give a chance to the skinny, beta guy who some have Autism, only choosing to settle with these guys when they hit the wall and want a safe guy for them and their child with another guy.

We should reject them and their baggage

[Billlewis]

I think single moms are sexy as hell, and my ultimate goal is to be in a relationship with a woman who has at least one child by another guy.

[Billlewis]

Thank you for the like, Goddess Nicki1989.

[Sonorous]

Maybe because it's true¿ I mean, if a chance can be given, then we're all deserving of one. And in this case, it's not abnormal for men to want to be with women even when they're single mothers.

[LiamJHayden]

There are a slew of women out there who are not nitpicky, judgmental, or demanding. And there are single moms out there who self-sufficient and only single because, through no fault of their own, there husbands passed away.

[DarkLegacy]

But not the majority

[DarkLegacy]

And he is on about the ones that have broken homes

[inhua]

nobody believes undesirable men deserve a chance so why should undesirable women deserve a chance either?

[Bricealan]

Wow!!! Someone else's "Broken home" ! That will win you a lot of love!

[mandyfire98]

Man, you really hate women. Lol

[historectomy]

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[FunkyMonkee]

Why don't they?

[sheikalana]

And why wouldn't they deserve a chance?

[DarkLegacy]

Lol a bit like you with your standards with attraction and will never date a guy who does not come up to scratch. A fine example of female hypocrisy. They are undesirable giving birth messes up their figure and why should men take on the baggage.

We would enter a relationship were we never be put first, be undermined by the child and what if we want kids. they do not deserve a chance.

[Akam93]

Not all single moms are like that.

[DarkLegacy]

Most are hence why they are single mums

[barn_stormer]

they're stupid as hell

[hello123456789]

Women are Lazy.