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1. As for responsibility, the answer applies to more than just single mothers. Almost everyone is responsble for whatever position they are in, through their choices and inactions. Some people will argue that they are a victim because they aren't attractive or they don't have money, etc., but most people are between 3/10 and 7/10, not higher, and most people find a mate. Not everyone makes $100,000 per year but most people can find a way to support themselves and their family if they try.
So, I wouldn't JUST focus on single moms. ALL of us are responsible for the direction we take in life.
2. I would not say that women are more responsible than men for bhm being single moms. Of course you can say that women made poor choices, but for every poor choice a woman made, there was a guy who was deceptive or irresponsible. This attitude that it is primarily women's responsibility is one of the factors that encourages men to be irresponsible. Use condoms or get a vasectomy or be prepared for kids and responsibilities.
3. I have dated single moms, and I have married a single mom and helped raise her children. No one forced me to do it. And, of course, no one should be forced into being a parent. The motivation for becoming a step-parent should be love and devotion, not pressure and the need to appease someone else. No, I don't think men should be "pressured" to raise children father by others, but. . . where is this pressure to which you refer? I've never seen it!
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Odd question you're making the assumption that all single moms are unsatisfied w/ their position. There's plenty of single moms happy raising their kids w/o a man around. A lot of these questions sound like they come from guys that have very little interaction w/ women.
Yeah, single fathers are innocent. Fathers are innocent. Men are innocent. But if there is ‘’women’’ in the sentence. They are ‘’always’’ guilty. Come onnnn… who hurt you?
Still going on about this? Sounds like someone is obsessed with single moms. Do they keep turning you down for dates or something?
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Single women with children blame themselves enough. I'm not going to put anymore blame on them myself. I'm also not going to put any more fault on them as well. Instead of trying to get people to side with how you think, you should think about how the people you poke fingers at are thinking
Of course it's the single moms fault. They start 70% of divorces bc they think Mememe and rarely compromise or treat their men right.
single moms have the stink of unfaithful selfishness on them. It's all about their kid and chances are they don't want more. No good man wants a single mom. It's only a desperation move. We all know they're petty judgmental and can't compromise. Red flag.
The kids say you're not my dad, and the man gets to make no decisions as mom says "it's my kid". No one wants that. Hence no one wants single moms. You don't even get to feel like a father. Waste of time that just ends in another divorce no way.No. No they’re not
for instance I am going to be a single mom. I never found Mr Right, but I still want children. I don’t deserve to not have kids just because I have standards and respect for myself when it comes to guys I’m dating etc. I can do IUI or other modern technology to have kids insteadI wouldn’t say it’s all their fault. I dated a girl that married a narcissist and had 3 kids together. At the start she thought he was a great guy, it was as the years went by that he became abusive. So she had to be careful who she was going to date
There are a lot of factors that go into it. Besides while I agree there are some single moms who are bad the fathers in these cases can be bad too. I would honestly look at it as a cases by case basis rather than simply just blaming single mothers and calling them bad.
Why should she take full blame on the father leaving the family and not in the kids lives... that sounds like his fault
Partially, usually the guy exhibits red flags early on but she's too infatuated. Then once the infatuation dies down all of a sudden he was too cunning or changed. Either way don't feel sympathy. They brought this upon themselves.
at least she decided to stay unlike the father? how is this the woman's fault. she took the responsibility.
I couldn't of sad it any better
And it's true, Facts are the Facts
In the end women will hate men for it
But ohh Well!!!Seems to be the case a lot of the time. As in they get pregnant while being irresponsible and by a irresponsible man
No. It isn't how life and circumstances work in reality.
Of course they are, they're ultimately the ones in control of picking these fucking losers of men.
Yes, girls are narcissist they do terrible mistakes and still feel strong and independent woman.
No my mom was single cause my father died.
Not really it take 2 to get there
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