Has someone ever unexpectedly dumped you?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

No, it was expected

No, but I dumped someone, and they didn't expect it

Yes

[AviatorTom]

It was about 8 years ago. I spent the Christmas holidays with her and her two grown children. A week later I got a "Dear Tom" text from her. I was devastated. Didn't date for 2 months after that, then decided it was time to move on, and I did. After some fun dates that didn't lead to anything, I met my SO several months later... 7 years and counting.

[DarkCarousel]

Yes, once and without reason. Just said he didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore.
We ran into each other about a year or so later and he explained that he was being pressured by his family to rush our relationship (buying property, marriage, etc).
He was a great boyfriend (minus the crummy way of ending things). We had some personality differences that may have led to conflict down the road if we had gotten that far.

[BlackJeep]

Yup. We were together for over a year and never argued. Went on vacation and were having a great time and then it was over. It turns out her best friend lied to her about me to break us up. She contacted me a couple months after but I wasn't interested.

[exitseven]

She dumped me and went back with her old boyfriend. I really loved her and was totally blindsided. It was tough.

[Fireguy17]

yes, both.
I have been the dumpee and the dumper.
It sucks but it is part of life, and you get over it and move on.

[MementoMori777]

Yea cause I thought we were good after the argument, 3 days later she said she wanted to break up

[Rangers]

Yes, in both of the relationships I've had so far in my life

[Paris13]

I Did the Dumping. xxoo

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah. Also the reverse once.

[anon1903]

Yes. I really liked him but he was so mean.

[Redstang88]

Yeah that’s usually how it goes

[shades777]

i usually do the dumping

[SnowedIn]

Yes. Not fun.