My boyfriend just hit me should I go get stitches or what should I do (pic)?

[Anonymous]

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Guys I went to Walgreens and got a gel cream to drop the bleeding and got some butterfly tape. Right now I feel so down and so unmotivated and weak. If I have the strength I will go to the er at 6 am in the morning. Thanks for your comments I appreciate it 🤍

[ohsheeT]

Hey so what are you going to do about this you know if you allow him to get away with this he's going to do it again

Be honest with yourself right now have you felt this building up and building up has he bullied you before has he pushed you as a verbally and mentally violated you

If you do not do anything about this I don't want the next f****** question to be he broke my arm he smashed my teeth in he f****** choked me to death almost because that's what's going to happen I don't care what you say it's going to happen if a man hits a woman and he gets away with it he's going to keep doing it and be honest with yourself on this too I will bet you $100 right now he has an anger problem and he controls you you need to do something about this I'm serious

Any man that says he loves you and then puts his hands on you is full of s*** he's a manipulator he's a liar he's a cheater he's a thief and he's a punk he has problems get away from him

I apologize and I'm talking about your boyfriend this way but I'm not sorry because you need to hear it and you need to be honest 100% honest with yourself you're going to have a f****** scar right there you know that
Most girls hold out their hand and say look at the ring my boyfriend bought me you're going to say look at my nose look at my face look at the scars on them f*** him he's a punk ass b****
Look if you need somebody to talk to DM me right now if I'm here I will answer you if I'm not here when I get back on here I will answer you no matter what. . and if he apologizes to you and you take that apology it's b******* because that's manipulation from him it's a con so he gets away with it if you have a brother you have a dad do you have any friends do you have a police department you need to f****** put him down you need to put him away he needs to pay for what he just did to you and he needs to understand that he can never do it again and that's the only way it's going to happen sorry to say it

[BoopBoopBeep]

Get him arrested, but that doesn't look like it needs stitches, and I've put in quite a few of them over the years. Double butterfly would work just fine... now that said... if you DID go to the E. R. and you DID explain how traumatic this was and you did convince the ER nurse that you'd feel more comfortable with stitches... play up the damsel in distress angle, maybe he'd pop a couple in you, and that'd help a lot come court time, both criminal AND civil. Make sure you have good insurance coverage where you're going (in network ER) so you have an out of pocket maximum for the year, because ER is never going to be the cheapest out there, but a doc-in-a-box doesn't play as well in court.

[elizamichale1]

What the fuck? That bad? I m a prostitute n even i dont get beaten where i need stitches...

U must go to police n report that bastard right away... dont u fucking tell urself tht u love him or he was just not in control of his senses... just report him if u dont want to die miserably in sum corner crying alone...

My words r harsh but thats the reality of it i m sorry

[DermalPunch]

So wait getting beaten is par for the course? Not judging. Asking.

[SakuraBlossoms87]

She's already made up her mind. Instead of going to the ER and getting evidence of the abuse she goes to Walgreens and gets means to hide the abuse. You hit the nail on the head with the bit about dying ---- happens to a LOT of women.

[elizamichale1]

@DermalPunch well i only meant for my profession coz sum clients thinks its their right to hit us coz they paid for our time so they can do anything... some people do it out of hatred..
I meant it is not a surprise to know about such things in my profession...
It just shouldn't be acceptable in any case n specially with girls like her as they blame themselves n try to find excuses for the abuse just because they love the person..

[elizamichale1]

@SakuraBlossoms87 i hope she changes... she must

[DermalPunch]

Yes know all that. But for him to do this he has eroded much of her self esteem and her mindset has been warped as well. She needs to leave of course.

[elizamichale1]

@DermalPunch yes definitely no second opinion about tht... n i m sure if she just leaves him n moves on she will get back her confidence n charge in herself

[DermalPunch]

It will take time but she needs to start asap

[elizamichale1]

@DermalPunch oh yes definitely

[EmmaMary]

Seek immediate medical treatment, then have the fucking lowlife b****** arrested.

[hello123456789]

Beat his azz!!

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[OlderAndWiser]

The longer you wait to get sutures, if necessary, the greater the chance that you will have permanent scarring. Go to the ER now, and also file a police report!

[EricSummer]

Go to the doctor and get this documented for use with the police. Then go to the police.

It's probably not going to need stitches, but they will check and tell you and disinfect it and all.

You must document it now. Later you cannot use it.

[Nikki1989]

Seek medical help and have him arrested ASAP.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

this is a very serious accusation, especially posting something like this on social media is suspicious and regarding various accounts of fake metoo, cries for attention or Amber Heard-like stuff I would be very careful with this

Still, go see a doctor

[slatyb]

it's an accusation if she files charges or names and shames someone

[SakuraBlossoms87]

ROFL

[richardcory]

I absolutely don't want to blame the victim - she is welcome to deal with this however she wants. I would recommend going to the police - abuse tends to get worse and worse over time.

If not the police, I'd recommend leaving if you have anywhere to go.

[SakuraBlossoms87]

So instead of going to the ER where you can get ABUSE documented you went out to Walgreens to get a means of hiding that ABUSE.

What do you want us to do?

You've made up your mind by your actions. You'd prefer to hide your "boyfriend's" ABUSE and pretend it doesn't happen.

Good luck to you. Hopefully you'll get some sense & leave before it gets worse.

[slatyb]

You should see a physician to ensure that you don't have a scar on your nose. Then you should press charges.

[Asker]

Hi do you think I need stitches on my nose?

[slatyb]

I don't know. If I were you, I would see a doctor. You don't want a scar there.

[Asker]

Im thinking of buying butterfly tapes will you think that will help.

[NotInterestedSorry]

@Asker you need stitches. It's too deep of a cut to heal with just butterfly tape.

[MementoMori777]

It should be checked by a professional, also sue him

[Tshsjjdshjsu]

Uhh... intentionally and when not physically provoked? Then why is he your boyfriend, and not your ex? You're playing with your life, and doing it poorly. Please stop. Ask any man here, he'll tell you he'd NEVER do that to a girl he loves. Or probably any other girl. Which means your boyfriend is treating you worse than we treat strangers. Please fucking leave, or at least ask someone wise about it. Please.

[hello123456789]

First, call the police and get stitches. Take all the pictures necessary for documentation.

Or... BEAT HIS AZZ. Stop playing around with this fool and hit him back... then call the cops.

[OlderAndWiser]

Hit him so that they can BOTH be arrested for domestic violence?

[hello123456789]

@OlderAndWiser You have to defend yourself and make a statement sir. Too often times we have problems in this world that can be solved by a little bit of hand to hand combat.

[OlderAndWiser]

His attack on her is over. It's finished. Her being violent to him now would not be classified as self-defense, but HE could then respond and claim self-defense and beat the shit out of her. That's just not a good plan!

[Anonymous]

Call the police and have him charged and go to the doctor and get looked at. That definitely needs stitches

[DermalPunch]

So your EX BOYFRIEND just hit you potentially scarring your face for life.

You know what you have to do. It's the doing it that you are having trouble with.

[mandyfire98]

File charges against him. It only gets worse from here. Please please file charges against him and get away from him.

[Daniela1982]

Just get some polishing compound and a buffer. It should rub that divot right out.

[tfan1]

Unforgivable! First go to the police file charges against him! While you are there they might patch you up, if not go to an urgent care local to you or the ER.

[KarinMcDonald]

call the cops and file a report. He's an abuser and needs to have it nipped in the bud.

[Jazzy54]

First off, put his sorry ass in jail. Totally unacceptable. Secondly, yes, go get those injuries checked out.

[Anemone978]

I don't think that needs stitches.. but it should be reported if its true

[WhitneySnow]

Go to the police right away. Also go to the hospital and tell them what happened.

[CoolCatMar1]

He is so trashy!!! LEAVE THAT SCUMBAG AND REPORT HIM

[Fireguy17]

Leave immediately.
No ifs ands or buts about it.

[exitseven]

Call the cops. Get a restraining order. Go see the doc. Maybe he can fix it without a scar.

[Jamie05rhs]

Holy shit, girl. I'm so sorry. Please stay safe and take care of yourself. Don't go back there if you live with him. Stay with a friend.

[whereismyjohnny]

You should see a doctor and press charges.

[Lokiion]

Yeah get stitches the longer you wait the higher chance of an infection

[Lokiion]

I’m not going to make any comment on the situation since I wasn’t there nor know the situation you two had bur yeah get stitches as fast as possible

[Anonymous]

Dodge it next time. Then grab his balls and twist.

[Anonymous]

Stitches aren't required. Clean your wound properly

[Asker]

How?

[Opinion Owner]

You've never cleaned a wound before in your life?

[slatyb]

Are you a doctor?

[EmmaMary]

Asker... I certainly wouldn't recommend you taking any notice of this advice.

@balyai Are you a medically trained and qualified professional?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I am lol. I've seen bigger wounds and even had one. You shouldn't judge someone without knowing Emma

[EmmaMary]

@balyai

I regret to say that not for one moment do I believe you, however I will ask you what medical qualifications you hold exactly?

[Opinion Owner]

Fuck off! You aren't getting anything

[EmmaMary]

That now nicely answers and confirms my suspicions... Thank you.

[EmmaMary]

@slatyb

Strange how @balyai has suddenly gone anonymous, and so "politely" answered my last question to him!

[EmmaMary]

@slatyb

I've now just discovered that @balyai has most conveniently Blocked me!

Now, isn't that telling you something. lol

[Opinion Owner]

Be safe and take care of yourself girl. You deserve better.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you, and the same to you.

Please do try and stop lying in future, it rather isn't very nice at all.

[Opinion Owner]

That wasn't to you Emma the bitch! It was for the person who posted this question asking for help.

[Cheerfull009]

Get stitches and kick out that animal from your life

[Celticwolf78]

Time to kick is dumbass to the curb and press charges

[luvstoned4him]

Wtf, report to police immediately

[Shamalien]

Looks deep enough to require stitches…

[Snakeyes7]

Go to the police.

[msc545]

Go to the ER - then get a new boyfriend.

[KrakenAttackin]

Did you start the fight?

[CoolCatMar1]

Shut the hell up bastard misogynist!! I have seen plenty of shit heads who accuse their girlfriend of cheating just because they saw her co worker flirting with her and she wasn't even responsive 😑 and start beating the hell out of her when she gets home and start the argument for no reason you are just a trashy dude plenty of u out there

[KrakenAttackin]

@CoolCatMar1 Her black finger nail polish gives her away. Black nails, black heart.

[Staximus]

Call the cops

[Staximus]

Call the fucking cops

[BigDog1989]

Please do

[riverrat3]

Tell the police