My boyfriend thinks he is basically botched from surgery, he is hurt and it hurts me. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

[_Maya_]

What? There is not any context to this. What was the surgery? How is it "botched"? Has he gone back to the doctor? Has he sought out another doctor to fix the issue? Did he...

Never mind. You see the problem with this post. There is not any context to anything about your boyfriend. If he is hurting then he needs to go seek medical care. No one here can do anything and you can't either unless you are a doctor or trained medical professional. The best thing you can do is get him medical attention if he is hurting from whatever surgery he had. That is another thing. What was the surgery on? How long ago? How long has he been in pain? Did they give him medication to treat any discomfort? Do you see how this is impossible to answer? All you can do is support him and the best way to do that right now is seeking medical help.

[Abbycado]

Get him to a hospital and don't worry about posting online for starters.

[molonski2]

Depends what country you are I guess.

What can you do? Not much , just be supportive.

[strateguy632]

I would lie that "you look fine" and offer to cuddle if i was a gal.

[Wise4myage]

What sort of surgery did he get?