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Why does this guy keep hitting on me when I’m a chubby unfit woman?

Okay so I’ve always been chubby my whole life. Never been slender, never been fit. I know thick has been in for a while and I’ve embraced my thickness but I’m still not happy with my body. A couple of girls wish they had a body like mine but they’re slender with flat or with abs. Are they crazy? I’d KILL for a slender/body with abs but also keep my curves. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE my curves. It makes me a woman but I don’t like my chubby and big body. I’ve never had a boyfriend in high school. I never understood why some smaller girls wanna be chubbier or bigger. Always there’s this guy that’s been hitting on me a lot lately. He winked at me, tried to talk to me and said I’m very beautiful. I mean I’ve spoken to him and we’re friends. He’s mine of my friend’s childhood friend that she hasn’t seen in a while. I’m not going to lie, he is FINE! He’s fit, has a six pack and he’s so good looking. Also he’s a very kind, genuine and funny guy. Quite frankly Im surprised that. Not trying to sound snobby but I’ve been hit on a lot more than my friends sometimes and other times I get ignored and my friends get hit on. I’m chubby at 175lbs and I’m 5’4. I’m trying to lose weight and get ride of my flabby stomach. I’ve always envied women with toned/flat bellies even the thick women with that kind of bellies. Anyways why would a handsome guy like a chubby, curvy unfit woman like me? I’m plain and my friends are knockouts. He gets an upset looks when I mention when I’m trying to lose weight. We’re in college now and.

Why does this guy keep hitting on me when I’m a chubby unfit woman?
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