Should I block him or Keep him?

[Reem12345reem]

He never texts first and I decided to not text him and we haven't talked for 5 months 💀
He's gay (masculine gay) but I like texting him bc he's fun (he has a great personality) and I want to be close friends but he just doesn't f*cking text me first 🙂and I feel annoying if I text him first

[Cynicaldreamer]

"He never texts first and I decided to not text him and we haven't talked for 5 months..." Seriously? If he's such a good friend, then why hasn't he talked to you in FIVE MONTHS?

It sounds like he likes your company, but since he is gay, he just talks to you when it's convenient for him- basically he's not going to put the extra effort in since you're just friends. Just stick to talking to him in person or occasionally texting him to ask if he wants to hang out-

I feel the same way about "bothering" people- and if they're not texting you first or asking to meet up or hang out, it makes you wonder how close of a friend they really are. So if he's not texting you first, or putting in the effort, don't be that person that's always reaching out first!

[Jennz6]

Don’t block him

[Jimbob08]

I what you mean. A girl from school was like that I really wanted her for a girlfriend she only text me back when I text her. I just gave up and moved on.

[Reem12345reem]

i think in your case it's different bc most girls expect the guy to always text first , but i guess if you've been talking for a very long time , like more than a month she should have at least texted once or twice first

[Reem12345reem]

or she's really not that interested

[Jamie05rhs]

Why would you block someone who is nice to you?

[Reem12345reem]

Bc Im hurting myself by staying with him

[Jamie05rhs]

I didn't tell you to stay with him lol. The issue was blocking; not anything else.

[Jamie05rhs]

And what the hell do you mean "stay with him"? Honey, you're not in any way, shape or form "WITH him." He's gay!

[Reem12345reem]

I don't know but for me blocking lets me stay away from him , if i didn't block him Id would be more willing to start a conversation with him bc i can't help myself from not talking to him 🙂
i didn't mean stay with as in a rltp

[Wise4myage]

Have you mentioned this too him?

[Reem12345reem]

No but if I mention this to him I think he'll start getting colder

[Wise4myage]

Well try once and if he never responds than block him and move on. It doesn’t seem liked he’d interested.

[Reem12345reem]

Ogay, thanks :)

[Wise4myage]

Your welcome 😊

[In_Trance]

Block

[eagle1951]

block