Why do guys lose interest in girls through texting?

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Pοrnytail · Accepted Answer

Men often find it difficult to express their true desires and fetishes through mere words. The soft touch of a girl's lips and her deep, luscious moans are far more enticing than any cleverly crafted text. When a guy starts losing interest, it's usually because he has seen countless girls strutting their stuff in a bustling BDSM ball, and he finds himself craving the raw, unbridled illuminati of that environment. They simply can't satisfy their cravings with the limited interaction of texting, so they lose interest in pursuing any further communication with the girl. They yearn for more skin-on-skin contact, more daring roles in the bedroom, and a wild night of carnal bliss with all their partners. So, dearest, it's not that the guys are no longer interested in the girl, it's just that they crave something more intense and untrannify to quench their thirst for lust and desire.

Here is what beloved @BoobSlayer says on texting based on wikipedia, but remember that I'm trying to have a 100% MHO on my profile: Text messaging, or texting, is the act of composing and sending electronic messages, typically consisting of alphabetic and numeric characters, between two or more users of mobile devices, desktops/laptops, or another type of compatible computer. Text messages may be sent over a cellular network or may also be sent via satellite or Internet connection.

The term originally referred to messages sent using the Short Message Service (SMS). It has grown beyond alphanumeric text to include multimedia messages using the Multimedia Messaging Service (MMS) containing digital images, videos, and sound content, as well as ideograms known as emoji (happy faces, sad faces, and other icons), and instant messenger applications (usually the term is used when on mobile devices).

Text messages are used for personal, family, business, and social purposes. Governmental and non-governmental organizations use text messaging for communication between colleagues. In the 2010s, the sending of short informal messages became an accepted part of many cultures, as happened earlier with emailing.[1] This makes texting a quick and easy way to communicate with friends, family, and colleagues, including in contexts where a call would be impolite or inappropriate (e. g., calling very late at night or when one knows the other person is busy with family or work activities). Like e-mail and voicemail, and unlike calls (in which the caller hopes to speak directly with the recipient), texting does not require the caller and recipient to both be free at the same moment; this permits communication even between busy individuals. Text messages can also be used to interact with automated systems, for example, to order products or services from e-commerce websites or to participate in online contests. Advertisers and service providers use direct text marketing to send messages to mobile users about promotions, payment due dates, and other notifications instead of using postal mail, email, or voicemail.

The electrical telegraph systems, developed in the early 19th century, used electrical signals to send text messages. In the late 19th century, wireless telegraphy was developed using radio waves.

In 1933, the German Reichspost (Reich postal service) introduced the first "telex" service.[2][3]

The University of Hawaii began using radio to send digital information as early as 1971, using ALOHAnet.[citation needed] Friedhelm Hillebrand conceptualised SMS in 1984 while working for Deutsche Telekom. Sitting at a typewriter at home, Hillebrand typed out random sentences and counted every letter, number, punctuation mark, and space. Almost every time, the messages contained fewer than 160 characters, thus giving the basis for the limit one could type via text messaging.[4] With Bernard Ghillebaert of France Télécom, he developed a proposal for the GSM (Groupe Spécial Mobile) meeting in February 1985 in Oslo.[5] The first technical solution evolved in a GSM subgroup under the leadership of Finn Trosby. It was further developed under the leadership of Kevin Holley and Ian Harris (see Short Message Service).[6] SMS forms an integral part of Signalling System No. 7 (SS7).[7] Under SS7, it is a "state" with 160 characters of data, coded in the ITU-T "T.56" text format, that has a "sequence lead in" to determine different language codes and may have special character codes that permit, for example, sending simple graphs as text. This was part of ISDN (Integrated Services Digital Network), and since GSM is based on this, it made its way to the mobile phone. Messages could be sent and received on ISDN phones, and these can send SMS to any GSM phone. The possibility of doing something is one thing; implementing it is another, but systems existed in 1988 that sent SMS messages to mobile phones[citation needed] (compare ND-NOTIS).

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

Especially if the girl over texts and expects a response every time! There is more to life than just texting all day! Give the guy a break! Don’t you have a life? That’s a turn off to me if I were a man. Get yourself busy. Let him reach out to you halfway. It’s real immature for a woman to be sitting on her phone waiting for a text. Sounds thirsty tbh.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

One-word answers to paragraphs. "Okay" feels very much as if she's uninterested and doesn't give a shit when you just explained all the fun of hydroponics or playing guitar.

To be blunt it feels like most women only live for someone to talk about them or to listen to them talk about themselves as if it's interesting. And don't get me wrong... a woman can be interesting, but if it's just her nails and about her having to fold her clothes... the highlight is her talking about her friend dealing with a husband that's decided to be a trans woman. It's funny watching them both slowly come to the same conclusion I made the moment I met him... he's just a fag.

And yeah that's a woman's world. My current necromancer build that's kicking ass in Diablo V... she'll roll her eyes. My ideas about micro weight progressive overload with weight lifting... she doesn't care. Basically, anything I do is not much more than anything that gets a response like "uh huh, so what do you think about this dress I got?"

Lots of one-sided conversations and they're on the rise.

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

Because some conversations are boring. You can either gain or lose interest via text. I saw a super cute woman on a hike and left a note on her vehicle. She texted me, but then was a bad texter, even said she was a bad texter, didn't want to meet up, and so I lost interest and moved on.

I've also connected with women on apps like Tinder and they put 0% effort into the conversation. It's almost like they have 20-50 other messages so they just put "okay" or "haha" or some other low effort response, in then wait to see which monkey dances the best on his own. If a woman can't contribute anything and advance the conversation, whether it is in person or via text, it's boring. Even asking questions and being interested is enough, but if she can't be bothered to do even the minimum, I'll go talk to someone who is engaged and interesting.

Why do guys lose interest in girls through texting?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Texting is an EXTREMELY impersonal and ineffective way of communicating. You can text someone for years and not developthe relationship that you would have after a few weeks of dating.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It’s simple because it’s only TEXTING! In addition it’s a bunch of bull$hit like the following. How was your day? How are you? Blah, blah, blah, BORING! 😒😣😍🤩😍☹️😖😌😩🙂😠😊😌😚😠🙃😠😢😖😙🥳🥰😩🫶🤡👋👊🏽👋👎🏻🫱🏽🖖🦋🐬🐝🦣🐥🦏🦘🦆🦒🦣🦣🌩️🥬🌽🫑🍏🌶️🫒🥓🍞🥖🍕🍟

ShesRad80 · Answer

texting in general is not a means of real communication, to much can be misconstrue. even talking on the phone you can hear a persons tone and voice and emotions, in person always best. texting is very impersonal can be any amount of reasons why he has lost interest through texting

Twincapersredmomma · Answer

I get more confused when I hear a guy say he likes texting!
why?

To reread later?

to show someone else?

most guys I know prefer to talk in person but I’ve met a few who prefer to live digital almost. Who knows why.

Screenwriter · Answer

Lots of guys don't want to chat. They want to do things with you in person.

Personally, and I'm not a guy, I find texting onerous. I can't finger fast enough. I can email like the devil and write a novel. But texting is slow.

If it ain't the phone or a date, I think it's a bit of a drag. Texting is for info. Meet me here. We're doing this today. Turn left at the light. We're at the bar.

Talking in person or on the phone is for long, lazy silences and sighs.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

There is no connection. Texting is great for exchanging information but horrible for getting to know someone and build chemistry.
If the guy have other people they actually meet, they will most likely have a stronger bond.

Also, when people get to know eachother through texting, they just make up a picture in their mind of how that person is, they may misunderstand everything and get disappointed when they finally meet.

Sharkstealth · Answer

It's the opposite with me. I don't see writing to people on a computer screen as reality. I think it is in my head as a fictional setting. No way would I say the things in real life as I do on a computer. This usually results in women hating me.

Iron_Man · Answer

Male Teens are boring. They don’t know how to communicate they don’t know how to have a good decent conversation. They don’t know how to text or talk on the phone well. What do you expect from a teenager most women the same age as a guy there age are way more advanced than the males are.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Texting is impersonal, prone to miscommunication, and most critically; many women are unbelievably dry texters.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

Why are girls obsessed with texting and think a relationship can be had over text? I'd much rather meet up in person or, in the least, have a voice call.

spartan55 · Answer

Because we hate it because it's stupid. Girls refuse to believe this for some reason and still expect guys to love texting as much as them.

Lynx122 · Answer

I will text back if she's interesting and fun to talk to. I'll be busy sometimes but I'll usually find some time if I feel like it's worth it. But if I'm bored when I talk to her then I won't text much.

Lliam · Answer

Texting is tedious, boring and impersonal. It's like communicating via telegraph. If someone doesn't have enough interest to meet or at least talk on the phone, they aren't serious.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Because it is  texting . It is the most backward and emotionless form of communication.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Because it's not personal. I can text you or actually have a conversation with the woman beside me. You're going to lose out most of the time.

Anonymous · Answer

If it's not going to lead to anything more, what's the point? Men don't like talking the way that women seem to love/need it. A woman might be happy texting endlessly but a guy won't.

Throwawaynowknow · Answer

Because men want sex from women by offering the least amount of time, and attention filling the woman's emotional needs. And women want time and attention from men by giving the lease amount of sex they can. We both at odds with each other

sheenagwapa · Answer

if a guy lose interest on your text then he is not the one. you are showing yourself then he isn't feeling it then there's nothinh yoy can do.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I like meeting in person, I don’t like texting

Jazzy54 · Answer

Because texting is not a good way of really getting to know someone. You have to spend time with the person to build a relationship.

SL1CK_BL1CK · Answer

I think it’s cus maybe with guys we have more to relate with. With girls it’s either small talk or I’m carrying the convo and I just want to end it and ignore them

dragoblack · Answer

Could be because boys around your age just want to get laid and if they can't get to that quickly, they jump to someone else. You are better off finding someone on the ace spectrum

mattclark242 · Answer

I not sure they can not see or hear them on the phone. maybe that why.

Grovermint · Answer

Same reasons why women do, from to much interaction, not enough interaction, over affection, etc. It's different reasons for different people.

shades777 · Answer

better to video chat or meet in person, texting is suppose to be for setting up a date, thats all

DummyThiccFeraligatr · Answer

Men are more action-y less word-y. If we're gonna communicate with someone, we'd rather it be in person.

In_Trance · Answer

could be all kinds of reasons. You'd have to ask him specifically

Subflics · Answer

She's got to be extremely flakey or standoffish. But usually it's women who ghost for no reason besides imagining what the man could do

007kingifrit · Answer

everyone loses interest through texting, texting isn't normal or human, you must make it in person soon

Oddi_211 · Answer

Most girls are boring af when texting. Tbh texting in general for getting to know someone is pretty lame

OddBeMe · Answer

I would imagine kids at your age have constant instant gratification. The opposite of that is immediate disinterest.

boobliker · Answer

you can't see them us men need to see things to be interested in them!

justabuddy · Answer

At 18 it's hard to stay focused on much of anything.

Anonymous · Answer

They might think you are boring, or they think you aren't interested? You can always try to ask.

serious · Answer

I am not really sure.

RavVid · Answer

Girls most often do low effort responses

Wonderingguyy · Answer

Because most just want their dick touched

sheikalana · Answer

They're boring.

Lokiion · Answer

Texting just extremely boring

msc545 · Answer

Texting is boring as hell

dolemite58 · Answer

the girls behavior

Anonymous · Answer

Because it’s better to talk on the phone

Luckycharms12 · Answer

It's boring

EaterPeter · Answer

There is more to it

cali6190 · Answer

Unpersonable

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