Is dating a guy without a car a big deal?

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I live at home still 26 don’t like it but after Covid the prices are ridiculous don’t know why I’d move out. Anyway that was just a vent and you can let me know what you think of that. Back to the question I can’t drive because I have a disability but it effects my confidence not driving and I don't know how to get past it

rigmarole · Accepted Answer

What would you expect. According to the quantity theory of money, prices have to go up... You have the Federal Reserve expanding the money supply. You have Biden and the Democrat party giving out stimulus checks to increase the velocity of money while Democrats locked down their own economies in their states to reduce the quantity of real goods available. The only variable in the equation remaining is price and by basic mathematics it has to rise due to how the other variables were purposely manipulated. The prices have nothing to do with covid and everything to do with policy decisions made by Democrats and the Federal Reserve. They wanted to increase prices and devalue your currency reducing your purchasing power so that they could usher in their surveillance state Central Bank Digital Currency (CBDC) as part of their The Great Reset/Build Back Better plan.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

It's really none of my business and you don't have to answer me I'm curious what kind of disability that you have.

I have answered this question four times and I've erased it three times. Because depending on what it is in life whether it's a challenge or confidence I'm the person that will fight for both because I don't believe in too many disabilities I mean I know that you have one but that doesn't mean that your life stops but that's your choice and up to you so I'm going to shut my mouth right here and hopefully only if you want to you can tell me what kind of disability that you have and I will help you figure this out depending on the disability I guess

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

I never cared, I was engaged to a man who doesn’t have a car.

I was even planning to accumulate money to surprise him with his dream car after our marriage. He refused to buy anything less than that car.

After we broke up, 6 months later, I met a 28 year old, financially well off, smart and nice man who was driving a Ferrari, we dated for 2 months and when he asked me for us to be in a relationship, I realized I wasn’t ready and had to end things with him.

So, you see? There are two men. Both are nice. But one was my type without a car and one wasn’t exactly my type with a dream car for many people.

Car or wealth, doesn’t always mean a woman will like you. There are some women who don’t get impressed by your money, instead your personality and the attraction between you two.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

My boyfriend has a car and I don’t yet so it’s important that he has one because we don’t live that close to each other and we’d never see each other if he didn’t. But in general I don’t think it’s that big of a deal, especially if you both live in the city.

_Maya_ · Answer

Nah if you have a disability that prevents you from driving that would not be a problem for me personally. Besides I can drive and have a car. It isn't anything special lol. It is just a Honda so if you're cool with that then we are straight and good to go. Is it something you can get meds for or something? I'm more curious than anything and you don't have to tell me. Just being nosey.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

The disability is not a big deal, the living from home depends, if you are somewhere super expensive like new york, it's almost a standard for someone your age, otherwise it gets a little dicey, I do get saving money, but what about getting roommates? Or something else? Bottom line it's hard for girls to go home with a guy that lives with his parents. But I will give respect that there are other things that factor in. The original question, disability, fuck any girl that will give you a hard time about that. She is not worth your time.

BCA6010 · Answer

I think that depends a lot on where you live.

Anywhere rural or most of the Midwest, not having a car is a huge detriment. Living in major cities with decent public transportation (yeah that's an oxymoron, whatever) it's more forgivable. Coming from Texas, it blew my mind how many guys I met in the Army from mostly the northeast had never driven a car before.

provokeesmokee · Answer

Where I live, it's no problem because most places are transit accessible.

If I were in America, though, no. I wouldn't. There's too much need for being able to drive and I hate the idea of being trapped giving a ride because I'm dating someone.

Fireguy17 · Answer

the living at home part at that age unless you are a health care aid to one or both of your parents.
And the car thing at that age could also be a red flag.
You are not able to take care of yourself enough to be on your own, much less bring someone else into the mix.
I'm sure there will be someone out there that would be ok with that, but you are narrowing down your choices with that resume.

Staximus · Answer

Sounds like you can drive but are making excuses to not get your life together. The only reason you can't drive is because you are telling yourself you can't drive. Women don't want a man they have to drive around like a child. They want a man be a man and be able to do things for himself and them. I suggest you get your mind in order and learn how to act like a man and not a kid before you worry about women.

musicbrain5 · Answer

Not where I live. Driving is a hassle, parking is at an expensive premium here and it’s sometimes easier to take transit. It’s not strange for a guy to not drive or have a car in this city.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

Eh, it depends.

I dated two girls that didn't drive, the first one was pretty independent even without a car so I didn't mind that. The second one though literally used me as a free taxi, and I got sick of her pretty quick.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It's not a big deal if you can at least give her some money for gas or to take Uber or bus to come see you all I can say is safe your money up, I'm in the same issues since I'm disabled with mental health disorders.

Anonymous · Answer

These aren't Covid prices, these are Biden prices.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, cars are not that important, especially in you live in a city.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

In this world some people have cars & some people don’t & if you live in a city with public transportation & know how to get around that is all that counts.

-badLomens- · Answer

I would think so, it might show to the female you’re irresponsible. (Maybe you have a good reason) Or it may make her feel too responsible for you like in order to get somewhere she may have to take you or you borrow her car which leaves her transportation-less. So I would think so.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Not really. My partner doesn’t have a car, or a license, but we live together and I’m always happy to drive him to and from work, aswell as wherever else he needs to do.

Chevy1_kb · Answer

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menina · Answer

It's not a big deal to me. But dating a guy with a car would be a plus. Besides I don't have a car either, so... 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

Where I live everyone drives. If you’re a man and can’t drive that’s a turn off 🤮. I’m not gonna be with someone disabled.

Car is transportation. You don’t have your own transportation or can’t drive. INSTANT NO!

LazerBean · Answer

Depends on how old he is. Past 19, yeah that's kinda sad.

exitseven · Answer

It can be an issue but it does not have to be. Uberss are very convenient and if you could explain why you don't drive I don't see a problem.

Viktor001 · Answer

It's not a big deal majority of women don't care. Just don't listen to EmmyWolf and you will be fine 😀

Anonymous · Answer

Tbh I would want a guy that knows how to drive. I'm an excellent driver and I dislike bad drivers. It would be hard to date a guy that didn't know how to drive. How do u manage to get around? Bus, taxi, Uber, or bike?

sheikalana · Answer

It can be if you both live in an area where a car is necessary to move around.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends. Its a bit of a turn off but if you have a plan to move out and you know when then sure

UnWokeDude_OrNot · Answer

I prefer public transport despite having two cars and other vehicles at home. Her thoughts need to align with mine.

Anonymous · Answer

No its not a big deal to me as long as he's working and finding a way to get to work by other means.

Riverdog · Answer

No but the man had to realise I’m not giving free lifts just because he expects it.

ItsMykolaJenkins · Answer

Its ok Before nobody had cars and still lived

SplatoonFan2 · Answer

Nope driving is not the isuse with me since i can't drive and i had a learning disability.

Anonymous · Answer

Most women don't wanna date a guy without a car or bike. Some may do but the most will not.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Nah you can always uber or rent a car

elizamichale1 · Answer

I wouldn't really mind

In_Trance · Answer

A drive in movie won't be much fun

OddBeMe · Answer

Depends if public transport is good.

noohair · Answer

I could not wait to drive and never looked back.

rollingtwenties · Answer

Guys without a car are usually more hung

Emree00 · Answer

love is more precious than money

Engin12 · Answer

She's not dating the car. Its not a red flag.

gothbxtch · Answer

nope

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