Feel bad about rejecting someone?

[Anonymous]

I rejected a really nice guy who loved me.
And I feel really bad about it.
It's been months but I can't stop thinking about him.
He asked to remain friends but I couldn't do it.
I see him in college sometimes but I always avoid him.
What should I do?

[Anemone978]

LOL he will get over it just leave him alone.. you made your choice..
Someone did that to me rejected me and told me he didn't want to be my friend..
I left it at that then he came back 4 months later saying he felt really bad, and he wanted to be friends but I was already over it and didn't care at that point.. I said we could be friends again and I talked to him for 2 weeks but then just stopped talking to him, he already rejected my friendship so I didn't really see him as a friend after that, he was just an acquaintance not someone I trusted or cared about.

[_Maya_]

Stay away from him and let him move on. You rejected him. Leave him be. What I don't get is how you reject someone and then can't stop thinking about them. You will get over it in time. Just move on with your life. There is no point in dwelling over someone you turned down especially when you also for some reason turned down being friends with him.

[serious]

Well I think you are avoiding him because you rejected a really nice guy and that makes you feel bad. Well, I think you should just continue doing that since you cannot undo what you done.

I don't think going back on your decision is an option for you, for most people it is not so in that case you should just live your life and do what you have been doing.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life the only way to move is forward & forward is the way to go. If you want to move forward maybe patching up a few things in your past would help you do that.

If truth be told why did you reject him?

Did you lead him on in any way?

[Anonymous]

See if he is still available/single and interested in you.. if yes apologize and get along

Else, let him be and leave him alone

(Don't listen to the so called popular girl who posted here... she loves acting tough and criticizing people not realizing no body gives a damn)

[DarkWinterNights]

If you don’t like him that way you don’t like him that way. You can’t just be “friends” with someone you like as more than friends. He’s probably moved on anyway.

[Willlovewinintheend]

I hope you don't end up 30 years old jaded complaining about where have all the good men gone. It's too many women like that.

[RyanK9b]

No, its better than giving them false hope or deceive them

[Anonymous]

Nothing. Leave him alone. He's a grown man. And you're not a plumber so there's no point in bringing up old s***.

[Grovermint]

Yeah, ok.

[In_Trance]

Go meet someone else