intimidate, threaten or scare there daughter or sister boyfriend once or repeatedly
Some parents are like that when the kid first starts dating but soften up after a few relationships or dates. It happened to my cousin when she first started going on dates with guys and her first boyfriend dumped her over guilt at making her parents angry. Now she is married.
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I never had to deal with an overprotective father or brother. My dad definitely does not want me with someone who wouldn’t care for me or was ‘bad’, and I would like to think the same for my brother but my brother is indifferent/probably wouldn’t care as it didn’t effect him. I don’t know how I would deal with that personally because it isn’t a thing for me, but I don’t think it is bad on the mild side. If it is extreme that just sounds unhealthy tbh
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A girl is going to date who they want regardless. If the father or brother is a problem she will meet the guy elsewhere and the father and brother will never see him until she accepts an engagement ring. If they are still a problem she will get married without their approval and they lose a sister or daughter until the come around.
I mean my brothers are over protective but if I tell them to leave it alone they’ll leave it alone. The only time a sibling intimidated a partner of mine is when my ex was harassing me, and while I didn’t want them to get involved it was a lot easier than getting a restraining order and involving the police
It is not cool. Also because even if we can like being protected we also know we are able to protect ourselves. I guess i can understand why they would try to protect, but both sides must be viewed in order to have some balance between protection/affection and freedom. Both in platonic and romantic relationships.
truthfully the first word that came to my mine was pathetic also. it's not like women are completely helpless. we will be okay without being sheltered and overprotected. for what reason? it makes us feel like we can't do anything and are dependent, which is far from the truth.
Sounds intimidating and annoying at the same time but makes me realize she's love and probably has two men in her life who are willing to protect her and only want the best for her.
I only had older sisters and they broke my dad before I dated, so I got to do what I wanted.
don't tell them to much because if you get mad at a guy and get over it they will still be mad at him and hassle him
Did he do anything to hurt her?
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It’s pathetic.
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