I figured out the answer to all my dating posts, it's social media more importantly the SIMPS we men need to be blaming?

[DaveJord]

Seriously Simps!!! Wait for it at the end!!!

[Stacey55666]

I totally disagree with her. Social media doesn't make women who are 6's think they're a 10, they come up with that on their own. Guys who are 10's, carpet bomb all women with their copy and paste messages. So NOW the female 6 thinks she's a 10.

1. Did she figure out that was a copy and paste message that had nothing in it to indicate it was tailor made for her? No, she wanted to believe it, so common sense went out the window.

2. Did she ever wonder why the 10 guy only wants to see her after midnight when he struck out at the club? No, she's not that smart.

I don't even understand her stuff about simps; it makes no sense to me. But don't blame social media for people not having common sense.

If you needed a used lawnmower, would you go to clubs and ask everyone if they had one for sale, or would you just go on craigslist?

The only reason the Internet doesn't work for dating, is because most people are stupid. In a nutshell, she was just guessing at best.

[DaveJord]

@stacey55666 thank you for your response. You really make some very good pionts. Please allow me to elaborate a little. I agree when you say this;

"Guys who are 10's, carpet bomb all women with their copy and paste messages. So NOW the female 6 thinks she's a 10."

This accurate and what the woman in the video means by the impacts of social media. Because the woman would not have access to the thousands of guys that would otherwise not be able to carpet bomb her and give this inflated sense of value.

The point about simps is this, a simp is a man that will pander to woman needs even at the expense of his own wants and needs. So, the simps or the guys that carpet bomb these women, only reinforces this woman sense of value. So, when a real and true genuine man who is honestly on her level comes along and challenges her on an emotional level... she rejects this guy and runs back to the simp. Even though that not what she really wants, but she is not really offering a real man of value much of anything other than the potential to get laid.

[Stacey55666]

OK, so in this story, who are the simps? The 10's?

[DaveJord]

https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/simp/

Simp is a slang insult for men who are seen as too attentive and submissive to women, especially out of a failed hope of winning some entitled sexual attention or activity from them.
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The simps are all the other men that make excuses for women instead of holding them accountable for how they treat men in general. They are ones that crawl on their knees on social media to get attention from woman, like any type of attention. They are ones that make the 6 think they are 10s because they will say and do anything to get their attention.

In the end... she will see these guys as less then what they are because honestly they simps. After she marries someone on her level, leaves him, chases men not on level and nothing works out for her... the simp will be the one that bails her out and will crawl on his knees for her... which again she feels she deserves that from men in general, because she has thousands of simp followers and Insta, that will comment on every pic she posts in the hopes of getting a sniff.

And then when the simp is tired of being treated like simp, she will jump to the next simp... because the simp doesn't realize he is the real problem. He is the one that is make her behavior okay and acceptable. Because there will always be another simp. And no matter what she does the simp will validate her in some way, just to get that sniff. Because simp will place extreme value an any attentions she gives him no matter what.

Her vision of what a real man of value is distorted, because no man of value is going to come crawling on his knees for her attention... except simps, so she expects men to act like simps... and when he doesn't, she convinces herself that she deserves more and better when she is not offering more or better to a real man. Be all these simps have her believing she all that and more.

[DaveJord]

A simp will never expect to be treated as an equal as long as he gets sex and attention. Real men want sex, and want to be treated as an equal, and most woman would agree with that until conflict araises and the real man will not back down from his own sense of self worth and value.

But simp has not real sense of value, or self-worth, because he only gets that since of value and worth from the woman he is with, and therefore will tolerate some of the most de-masculinizing behaviors from a woman with out complaint as long as he can get laid every now and then.

[Stacey55666]

I know exactly what a simp is. It's a simpleton. But I still think she is wrong. Once she actually believes she's on a higher level than she is, she's ruined for life. She would rather be alone than stoop to someone at her level. I know a woman who you would probably agree is a 4. She's been on the online dating merry go round for 15 years. She believes she's a 10, but she's not.

Dave, this is how it works. Sally goes to the store, and she’s invisible. Sally goes to a party, and she’s invisible. Sally goes to the club, and she’s invisible.
Then Sally goes home and turns on her computer. Holy crap! She has more copy and paste messages than she has time to even read. She’s a superstar. She’s famous. Virtual guys adore her. She’s a goddess.

Once she begins to believe her computer world is the real world, there’s no turning back. I put ALL the blame of the failure of online dating on women. But I don’t see any simps in this equation.

This is the advice I give to guys on this site that are less than perfect.

Get some game
Get a sense or humor
Get a great personality
Get a ton of confidence
Shed all fear

Then go out into the real world, and you will kick the shit out of the pretty boys. Lol All they have is their ability to copy and paste their corny lines.

[DaveJord]

@stacey55666 Well I 100% agree with you on all your points, trust me I think this what I have been trying to find all these creative ways to say... and no, a man is not an incel when puts some blame on woman of the failures of online dating. Because like you and I both agree on is that once a woman starts to really believe what she is finding on her computer is real... it might be lost cause.

Were the simp comes in to play, is when she begins to struggle or question what she is taking from the computer and starts to gain some objectivity of the reality of it all... well, the simp comes along and just indirectly reenforces what she wants to believe, based upon what she finds online. Because simp will validate any excuse she comes up with to justify her situation.

Now for those of us, like myself, who left the high powered world of 6 figure plus salaries to move to a rural area and buy property were nearest town is like 5 miles away with a population of 500 people, and the entire county is only 2,500 people... going out and finding available woman leads us to online. Which were we come into contact with these women, that really and truly value themselves about that of an average man, when they are no better than an average woman at best.

So that is my personal challenge, but yes, I 100% agree with you. Thank you for taking the time to write all this very helpful advice. This most sincere internet interaction I have had with woman in my life. You have restored some small degree of faith in me. Thanks!

[DaveJord]

But do not discount the power of the simp... who has conditioned himself to cater to these internet women.

[inhua]

yes I would say simps, white knights, cucks and male feminists deserve the most blame. women will only be as good as society allows to be and if cheating, abusing and divorce raping a man plus killing unborn babies is ok then they'll do it when they see fit and calling out such bad behavior is "misogynistic".

mentally weak men are the enablers and defenders of their bad behavior. it's bad enough they want to be weak in front of women, pedestalizing them but it's worse they try to infect every other man with their weakness

if all the men around the world suddenly said NO to feminism. there's nothing feminists can do to change that. weak men are the ones getting in the way of progress for society

[DaveJord]

@inhua just remember that I am 47 years old, so through the 90's and early 2000's... feminism or the concept of a it has resulted in entire generation of woman who do not beleive they need a man, or that they can do anything a man can do.

Sure, this very true on many levels, but they fail to realize the one thing they cannot do is provide a positive male parental role model for their children. So, the impacts of this, generation later, is that you have a lot of simps that were raised by single mothers and have no idea how to be a man or how to embrace their masculinity. And you have entire generation of woman that were raised by single mothers, who never learned how to respect a man or interact with men on equal level.

The simp doesn't put himself on equal standing with the woman, and daughter of single mothers expect men of value to conduct themselves like simps. But neither the simp or daughter are having their emotional needs really met.

[inhua]

you hit the nail right on the head. boys are being taught to respect women but girls aren't being taught to respect men

plus when you add in the "Women are wonderful" effect, it's no surprise bad women will take advantage of weak men or just men in general and no one dares speak out on this

[DarkLegacy]

Well the only thin worse then a feminist is a white knight/simp/cuckold who appeases them. Women would not be able to get away with half as much if it was not for them.

[DaveJord]

100%

[Emilianorodríguez]

The simp are guilty of otter economically to parasites (w-Word), but the main culprits are precisely the parasites that feed on those simp. Meanwhile, the simps are trash, so their opinion is irrelevant.