This is such a stupid question?

[Anonymous]

My Boyfriend in the beginning of our relationship let me do whatever kinda I wanted then half way through started telling me not to do this or that and now I can't really do anything, during that time I havnt been taking care of myself like I use to go get my toes done, get a massage, get a facial or get my hair done to make me feel good and now I have no motivation to do anything and when I use to do that he would get angry at me asking me why do I spend money to do that it's a waste or get angry bc I didn't tell him where I was going intill that day and now since I havnt been doing that he tells me the other day how come u don't get your toes done and I said bc 1 you told me I don't need it bc it's a waste of money and 2 bc u get so sensitive of where I'm going so I stopped, I don't understand what he's doing like is he talking to someone else and comparing me to them?

[Anonymous]

You are in an abusive relationship, your partner is controlling and is destroying your self esteem.

You should get out of this situation.

[MementoMori777]

He crazy as hell, he's become very controlling, it's quite toxic from the sounds of it

[Anonymous]

Dump his ASS. This is controlling behaviour.

[Anonymous]

Its not a stupid question and that guy has turned into is a control freak. You need to end that relationship before he hurts you.

[Huntingnfishin]

If this is beginning I hate to see the end

[Asker]

It's already the end there is no beginning

[Huntingnfishin]

Bingo. I'm sorry really

[spartan55]

So you have a job?

[Asker]

What? How is this even relatable to this question?

[spartan55]

Do you have one or not? RELEVANT is the word you are looking for... and it is.

[Asker]

Yes I do

[spartan55]

Okay, so he was never sponsoring all of those things things?

[Asker]

Absolutely not

[spartan55]

How/why did you lose your moivation for doing those things? Because of his attitude?

[Asker]

Yes and no yes being for his attitude but I didn't want to get yelled at or hear him bitch every single time I did something, plus I see him ad a black hole he sucks all the happiness and fun out of everything

[spartan55]

Then why is he bitching about how you spend your $$$. You should tell him to go mind someone else's business.

[spartan55]

Okay, then why are you even with him?

[Asker]

I'm already at that point

[spartan55]

So your boyfriend is Doug Downer

[Asker]

Tbh I have no idea I just can't let go and how toxic this sounds I'm choosing to hate him so much to drop him bc I'm to attached

[spartan55]

I wouldn't stay with a guy like that. You are young... you can do better.

[Asker]

Of how fucked this sounds I left me ex for him bc he was my friend and we had a lot in common and now it's like karma got me and I'm trying to get out of what I did and just be single and never do this ever again. But since he's been my friend forever I see his true side of how he actually is and I'm stuck on the person he use to be and my only option is hate him so much to the point where I can actually look through all his crap and tell him straight up I don't need you nor will I your nothing special, but he makes me feel like I only need him in this world, I eliminate the good people in my life bc he made me think there bad for me, and I'm to the point where I can't trust him bc ik that'd he's talking to other females but tells everyone he can't do something like that to me which makes me so confused?

[Asker]

And I just ask these questions and they are simple questions for people's opinions bc the only opinion I get is his and I can't trust him to save my life, I've never been in a relationship like this but it's teaching me so much of what to look out for.