Dumb question😅😂?

[Anonymous]

How do you set boundaries/rules in a relationship and or with fuck buddies I’ve always had a hard time setting any sort of boundary

[Emiliamazing]

Boundaries in any relationship need to be set by the individuals in the relationship. You may have one line in mind and your associate in the relationship may have another. We should all stick to the strictest boundary so that there is no confusion. I think it may be hard to set boundaries in the situation you’re participating in because there’s already a high degree of straying from the norm.

in most relationships involving two individuals seeking a monogamous situation, the boundaries are in continuous flux as the relationship deepens. In a situation where it is purely sexual endeavor, the boundaries may be mental or they may need to be drawn based on how physical the relationship is going to be. You skipped ahead dramatically from a traditional relationship in the friends with benefit or fuck buddy relationship.

[HelloImGoodThanks]

Don't get involved in situations like this if you can't set boundaries or stick to them

[Twalli]

I make sure she has friends and acquaintances that are not friends and acquaintances to me. Basically I want her to have people that she can talk to and be with if we break up. It's important to me that people in a relationship have two lives. One with their partner and one without.

[20yearsolder]

Honestly it's pretty easy, if there's something you don't want to do then you say no I'm not doing that or we're not going to do that. This is out of bounds, it's not going to happen.

[blissinanarchy1]

It’s not a dumb question, it’s a question you know the answer to, but it’s easier said than done. You got to have that open dialogue about boundaries, expectations, what’s okay and what isn’t.

[JPresidente]

You gotta communicate it somehow. Maybe go to a light lunch or coffee with them and tell them you wanna discuss the relationship and how it should work. Otherwise, they won't ever know.

[JustADudePlayinADude]

Just say them respectfully and explain why it is a boundary. If the person cannot accept that, they are not worth your time or energy.

[Guy13]

No 💩… Buddies and Boundaries are an oxymoronic word arrangement

[Jamie05rhs]

I tell her straight up from the very beginning that I'm not having sex before marriage, and that's that. I don't gaf what she says; I'm not changing my mind. Period.

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s not a dumb q. It’s not even about setting them as much as communicating if they change or when someone crosses

[Emiliamazing]

Very valid points. Just make sure that if the line is crossed it doesn’t happen again.

[BarryLiverstone]

Good advice. Too often people don’t speak up or let repeated abuse occur

[Emiliamazing]

Absolute truth

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Aggression. Not too much and not too little: perfection

[In_Trance]

Do it before you start fucking

[Anonymous]

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