Guy asked a dumb question?

[Anonymous]

I'm an alumni of the university where the guy I ve been on a few dates with, is currently studying as a doctoral student.
I have the library access card while he has the research student card. The research student card is dark green while library access card is also green. We know each other so he knows I have library access.

when we both swiped our cards , he asked me why do you have a research card. I felt a bit weird because he knows I am not a doctoral student but I showed him my card anyway.

Was this a dumb question on his part or did he intentionally ask this to see my card?

[spartan55]

Why would he have to lie to see your card? What does he have to gain by seeing your card?

[Asker]

Because he knows I'm not research student then why ask why I have a research card

[spartan55]

How do you know what he knows and doesn't know? Maybe he forgot.

[Asker]

We see each other everyday omg

[spartan55]

Okay... so what? Is this really something that needs to be a big deal? (Apparently yes)

[WhitneySnow]

Just a dumb question

[Asker]

So he's dumb?

[WhitneySnow]

Nah. He was probably tryna think of something to say and that’s the first thing that popped out of his mouth. He’s not dumb.

[Asker]

We were already talking normally.

[WhitneySnow]

Sometimes guys get tongue tied. Why do you think he wanted to look at your card?

[Asker]

To see my card what else

[WhitneySnow]

Why would he wanna do that?

[Asker]

I dont know just to see what card I have

[WhitneySnow]

Nah. I think he was just making convo. He didn’t really wanna see your card that bad.