Is there a particular reason guys never approach me? How do you make yourself, as a woman, more approachable?

[Anonymous]

[Flatmanlewis]

Lots of men are afraid of rejection. It’s a unique fear to men that most women don’t understand. The hotter the women, the less she can comprehend it.
Second, I think this generation of young men (I can say that because I think I’m old now) simply don’t have the “man skills” to ask out a woman. They need an app to hide behind.


To answer your question, it’s not hard to attract a man’s attention. Dress well, and sexy when it’s appropriate. Smile and say “Hi”. (Any man will respond to this if he’s even worth your time) and of course be friendly. You’ll draw the attention of plenty of men you don’t like (sorry, we’re simple creatures) but you’ll also attract the kind of man whose attention you want.

[EricSummer]

Look around and smile at a guy who you would like to encourage. Do not wear too strong make-up and no off colors like purple or black lipstick. Wear feminine clothes that are not too revealing.

Obviously, you can also approach a guy instead, but I realize that was not your question.

Of course, if you are ugly it could be tougher. Few women are ugly, though. It probably does not apply.

[Nikki1989]

Most guys these days don't have the motivation.

[Asker]

I noticed that. Comfort zone triumphs over other things. Can't blame them... but still.

[djmzes]

If the water does not come to you, you have two possible solutions

• Wait for it to comes then maybe it will
• Go and take it.

Choice is urs, and time is skipping.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You have to give a man a sign you are interested.

Smile at him or look at him a lot so he can go and talk to you.