We are kind of flirting but still in the friend phase. I want to make him feel butterflies just like I feel them. What should I be doing?
What gives guys butterflies?
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"Getting butterflies" is a colloquial term describing the fluttery sensation in the stomach, often attributed to nervousness, excitement, or anticipation. For guys, just as for anyone else, a multitude of scenarios or feelings can trigger this sensation:
Just like the feeling when seeing someone you're smitten with. Being around a person they're attracted to or thinking about them can lead to butterflies. Watching a touching movie, hearing a poignant story, or witnessing a significant event can stir emotions and induce butterflies.
This could also be about an upcoming event, such as a job interview, a sports match, or any situation where there's uncertainty about the outcome. Public speaking, being on stage, or any form of public performance can lead to nervous excitement...
Trying something new or stepping out of one's comfort zone can induce butterflies, such as traveling to a new place or embarking on a new hobby. Making significant life choices, like proposing or deciding on a major life change, can certainly create that fluttery feeling.
Things like roller coaster rides, extreme sports, or facing physical fears can cause those familiar flutters in the stomach.
It's important to note that the sensation of "getting butterflies" is a physiological response involving the release of adrenaline. This hormone prepares your body for a "fight or flight" reaction and can cause various sensations, including the fluttering feeling in the stomach.
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When they feel your out of their leage aka really pretty
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When you feel butterflies you're feeling that person's energy we all put out a frequency and when the other party can receive that frequency it changes the chemistry in your body and that's when you feel the butterflies. you can do it with just a look. a touch with words.
If you know how to use your energy.
Or pick up on other people's energy you both will feel the butterfly sensation. them in a heartbeat
It's almost as if becoming one
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What always does it for me is when a girl does something spontaneous for me, like surprises me with a packed picnic, or gives me a wrapped gift, and it turns out to be an album from my favorite singer, one I don't have or couldn't find. Something special and out of the ordinary gets me every time! Butterflies galore!
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When we meet a beautiful girl that has a lot in common with ourselves , that shows she values us and appreciates us and only has eyes for us , that doesn’t hesitate to keep us smiling , that brings positive into our lives not misery , when she likes to dress sexy for us , when she flirts with us and doesn’t hesitate to please us in the bedroom , when she enjoys the things we enjoy or supports the things we enjoy , her chances of giving us butterflies increases big time
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The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach & if she comes up to me with an award winning smile & homemade cookies or brownies my heart will melt like butter.
On the flip side if the cookies or brownies taste like shit that is another story.
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Nothing really. Women are emotional not that men do not feel emotions at all. But your gender likes to indulge yours while ours LEARNS that that's asking for trouble.
The best thing you can do is be woman of substance, a woman of value, support and encourage him, and let him know he is loved. Because that's ONLY real place men ever receive it.
If you earn a man's TRUST that's his butterflies.
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I don't get the "butterflies in the stomach" feeling from being overjoyed/excited/nervous.
I get them from being sick or from elevators, its not a good feeling and I don't want it. - 1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.
When you're on the phone with your boyfriend, and we can hear you giggle when you're talking about the next time you're going to see him.
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Butter don't fly, butter you put on your bread and eat.
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The girl in the pink dress gives men butterflies, not the girl in the profile pic. Femininity and softness go much further than a middle finger and leather.
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When you laugh and smile a lot, and have a cute voice and are just yourself.
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Maybe show him a side of yourself more feminine that what we see in your profile picture. I'm sure you can look drop dead gorgeous if you try.
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Being sweet, funny, and mellow.
Also, random, but your profile picture kind of looks like Jana Defi. haha. - 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
She either makes me feel them or she doesn't. It's not any one thing but the total package that gets me.
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Hockey tickets. You’re welcome. I’ll be expecting my wedding invitation in the mail.
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Be a girl. I mean, if you want to be happy, make him happy. BE A GIRL!
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Talking to a woman he likes and is serious. Sometimes first time impressions.
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You can't. Only if he finds you attractive. Then be nice and sweet then he'll get butterflies.
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Ask the guy if he wants a BJ, that works 100% of the time.
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Swallowing a lot of caterpillars? :-D
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When you generally just take the lead
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Smile. First of all: smile.
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Pretty women do
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