Why do I like sadistic men so much?

[Anonymous]

[abc3643]

To be a sadist, you have to be secure in what you want, demanding in that, and very confident that you will get it. Those attributes are very attractive to women. The problem with sadists is that they have no problem with the costs - harm to others. That's a defect in their personalities and likely in the inhibition center of the brain. Worse, the sadists who actually like to do harm - that is a true personality disorder because that goes against the basic human social evolved instinct for caring for other humans.

But that underlying strength of will and asserting to get what he wants at all costs exemplifies a real confidence and strength that is very attractive to women. This is why you are into them.

[slatyb]

Maybe that's what you grow up with, so it's familiar. What do you mean by "sadistic?"

[Asker]

I like cruel violent men, guys who hate everyone and the world maybe but I also want them to love me. I also would like for someone who loves me to hurt me, bruises, blood and all that

[Asker]

And I didn't grow up in an abusive household

[Anonymous]

You're toxic like that. Probably came from upbringing.

[genericname85]

well... we learn "how to love" from our parents at a very young age...

[Summeroflove]

Masochist? You’re sadistic?

[Anonymous]

Women tend to be attracted to the Dark Triad: narcissism, manipulation, and psychopathy.

[007kingifrit]

young women confuse arrogance for confidence, it is a sign of immaturity

[artgorgeous]

Because its your fetish.

[Staximus]

You better get over that shit

[Ironic_Method]

Sometimes we are just wired different.

[Anonymous]

Cause you are submissive

[LazerBean]

Daddy issues

[DextroShade]

You are broken.

[karekaaaa]

Normal im sadist with a lot tbh

[karekaaaa]

a lot girls like it