i keep seeing this one guy who rejected me everywhere. but its not actually him its people who look like him. i feel like i can't get over him. he is probably married with kids and doesn't give ashit about me i want to move on and live my life and have my own kids but i can't because i still have hope he will come back for me. how to move.
How to accept your crush for 3 years ago is never coming back and finally move on?
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Actually being realistic and understand although u still think about him he dont think about u and is living and enjoying his life
thank you you are right. I know this its a hard truth to accept.
Let me put it this way. What is your other option.
lol i have loads of other options. i am not a ugly i can meet a guy i just havnt bothered because i couldnt get over him. but though though of him raising his kids with his new wife cooking them meals going on holiday and basicaly being happy whilst i am alone waiting for him sounds unfair.
Who said anything about your other options? What does that have to do with anything. We're just talking about this guy.😆
you are saying i dont have any other option but to forget about him. yea that i know. he isn't coming back. he doesn't love me. i have to move on but its hard. i am in a lot of pain. my love for him is really strong. i know i have to move on.
Well if you realize then it's just a matter of time. Most people don't heal because they keep opening the wound thinking there's a glimmer of hope.
I was rejected by a woman I cared a great deal for. But the problem was I had to see her everyday. And if she cared for me she would have avoided me but she was selfish. She enjoyed my crush on her even though she had no interest in a relationship with me. A life event separated for 6 months which gave me time to get my head clear when she met me again she thought she could pick up right where she left off. I wished her well but she did not hold the power over me anymore. And she wanted that back! She stalked me for the next 2 years. I knew it was only to try to win my attention. And that she would just hurt me so I stayed steadfast.
I guess what I'm saying is 90% of this is in your mind. If your mind is lying to you, you need to lie back to it. I thought of every off putting thing about her and played them in an endless loop in my brain till my brain read that as the narrative. You learned this you can unlearn it.
i have a strong faith in god and i believe that love is a gift from god. i know that god is good but i am wondering why he made me suffer so much with this man. just a few hours ago i even though you was him. sometime i feel that people arn't real and the devil is playing mind games with me. i know that god is somewhere watching everything and i am wondering what was the meaning of this crush and why was it so strong. love is so pure and so strong that there is no way its not there for a purpose. i don't know if its a punishment. a test for the guy. a test for me or a way of telling me its time to find love. i think me and this man where soul mates and that he decided to move towards another destiny that was planed for him. i am completely allowed to believe this and its noones right to tell me otherwise.
3 years?
Damn, move on already.