My childhood friend finally expressed his feelings for me after years?

[Anonymous]

But he told me he don’t know how his family would feel dating a chubby girl. What does this mean and how should I feel about this?

[provokeesmokee]

Don't date someone who is more worried about his family's opinions than he is about your feelings and love.

Move on from this guy. He doesn't care enough about you to risk a bad reaction from family? How little will it take for him to dump you?

Besides, why date someone who would try to disparage you like that?

in my opinion, you could do better.

[BrightBubblyKat]

If he’s indecisive, then he’s making excuses not to date you because the truth is, he doesn’t like you enough to fight for you unless he realises later that he can’t do any better. (I speak from experience).

[Avicenna]

You know his family already, right? Are they demanding when it comes to his gfs?

[Asker]

Not at all. he said his family is just judgmental and always have a opinion about things

[AaronKrieger]

We need more context, but I suggest just asking the guy.

[Apple1996]

He shouldn't care what his family thinks

[Asker]

Exactly what I said

[ConfusedGirlie1234]

Don't date him

[Asker]

I mean he doesn’t really have many red flags besides that and he doesn’t like to be open about his feelings as in venting because he thinks men should keep their feelings to their self which I think is stupid. But other then that he’s genuine honest and very humble and always been a great friend and even after he expressed his feelings nothing changed and I know he really likes me I just don’t wanna make the wrong decision yk

[ConfusedGirlie1234]

I mean, perhaps not, but he may later be proven to, I don't know, do things like saying "I won't date u anymore if u don't loose weight", and that's just wrong. And also, if he really likes you, he shouldn't care about his family's oppinion. And also, if you aren't all that into him, try staying only friends. Otherwise, I don't know what should you do.

[In_Trance]

this is why guys and girls can't be friends

[Asker]

Right

[Iron_Man]

It’s rude for him to say that