Is this a good apology?

[Anonymous]

Im gonna say”i'm sorry, i just had a bad week, i didn't mean the rude things i said. you are pretty and have a cute personality💙”.

I told her i tried manipulating her and all the compliments i said were lies. I told her i just wanted to have sex and not date.

[_Maya_]

Dude this one is toast. She is done with you I hate to say it. I'm sorry but what were you thinking? If you ever wanted to sleep with me you can? Like you are not even dating and that popped into your head to say? She is right that you ruined this. If you haven't even gone on a date and bringing up sex that is what is going to happen 99% the time. I guarantee it. That was a bold move I must say. She is pretty adamant that things are not going anywhere so just leave her be and move on. Nothing you can do about it. Apologize all you want but she is likely to completely ignore it.

[Asker]

we did go on a date

[_Maya_]

Still... bruh.

[Asker]

what does definitely not now considering mean?

[_Maya_]

Definitely not now... considering (what you have said to her).

[Asker]

Im guessing it means just for now, or forever

[_Maya_]

I don't know dude. She seems pretty pissed.

[Asker]

I might just wait 5 or 4 months before talking to her again, she works at the mall

[_Maya_]

I mean... you can try.

[Asker]

actually 2 or 3 months, she does seem pissed

[chrissykerdock]

if you felt like that asking for a blowjob would've been better

[Yannae]

This is sadly... not a good apology. You have also said in your message history that you put sex as the first priority. The way you suggested going on a few dates made didn't sound like there is a lot of commitment going on. Like a serious relationship isn't really a top priority. You bringing up sex so early on only makes you come across as a man who's after sex, looking to score that within those few dates.

The apology itself is unfortunately, after reading the message history, complete rubbish and doesn't sound sincere at all. I am afraid you lost your shot with this girl.

[Asker]

im just gonna try it anyway

[Yannae]

I respect that. Let us know how it went.

[Asker]

it probably won't go good, but i will let you know

[Yannae]

Thanks :)
best of luck

[Asker]

she didn't reply i sent it at 9:24 and its 9:25 now

[Yannae]

People can not be on their phone all the time. Give it some time.

[Asker]

i doubt she will respond but it was good giving it a try, i will just move on to the next girls

[Yannae]

Was my analysis correct? About your intentions, that is?

[Asker]

yes, time to move on to the next girl

[Asker]

did she probably think it was manipulative

[Yannae]

No. If this was a video game, your Manipulation Level would be 1.

[Asker]

stop playing, cause the whole apology thing was a lie

[Yannae]

I know, which explains the level 1. I just wanted to know how accurate I was looking into this.

[MementoMori777]

Bruh let it go, you fucked it up, she will know you are just buttering her up

[Asker]

you are right

[OfMiceandMen]

I would have figured she was done with you, but I see below you went on a date.

You either sweet talked your ass out of a very hairy predicament and/or she's a very easy going person and actually likes you.

Either way, count yourself lucky and don't stray off the path again.

[Anonymous]

Man i feel like watching a series.. you and Chelsea are fun!